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Hi everyone.
Well my problem is the next.
I've tried asking girls out, and following my ideal of a godly relationship. But I've always been rejected, so my self confidence is above the ground.
I met this girl online, she seems very intelligent, a devout christian, beautiful, etc. We live in the same town.
The first time I talked to her (online) all went smoothly, we talked for many hours, all seemed right. Yesterday I tried talk to her again but there was no answer, so the fears of rejection came up again. Should I stop, should I talk to her again (and if so when)?
Thanks to all of you.

PS: sorry if this isn't the right forum
 
Loyal
Wait a couple of days and send a follow up message. Keep it cool, but let her know you'd like to keep up the connection. If no reply, then you'll have to let it go.
 
Loyal
If you come on too strong to a women, they will be afraid of you. Dont expect a wife type relationship, start out with a friend relationship, wanting to get to know you relationship. And most important, if you live in the same city, ask if you can take her to lunch in a public place, there is less fear associated with meeting someone publicly than privately.
 
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Greetings @Joey16Vargas

Keep praying about it.
Ask the Lord to clearly open or shut doors with regard to this lady.

Sadly this in an online world and what people seem to be is not necessarily what they are. However, I know of some online relationships that have bloomed into love and marriage.:love:

Keep the Lord at the foremost of your heart and trust Him to lead you.
 
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Hi everyone.
Well my problem is the next.
I've tried asking girls out, and following my ideal of a godly relationship. But I've always been rejected, so my self confidence is above the ground.
I met this girl online, she seems very intelligent, a devout christian, beautiful, etc. We live in the same town.
The first time I talked to her (online) all went smoothly, we talked for many hours, all seemed right. Yesterday I tried talk to her again but there was no answer, so the fears of rejection came up again. Should I stop, should I talk to her again (and if so when)?
Thanks to all of you.

PS: sorry if this isn't the right forum
Ask her if she received your email, If she doesn't answer the second time, take the hint and move on. God has thr right person for you, you just have to be patient.
 
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Ask her if she received your email, If she doesn't answer the second time, take the hint and move on. God has the right person for you, you just have to be patient.
It seems I've posted a similar understanding as you Hekuran sorry, I posted before reading yours.
 
Loyal
There's no harm in hearing some things twice. There's no harm in hearing some things twice.
 
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Hi everyone.
Well my problem is the next.
I've tried asking girls out, and following my ideal of a godly relationship. But I've always been rejected, so my self confidence is above the ground.
I met this girl online, she seems very intelligent, a devout christian, beautiful, etc. We live in the same town.
The first time I talked to her (online) all went smoothly, we talked for many hours, all seemed right. Yesterday I tried talk to her again but there was no answer, so the fears of rejection came up again. Should I stop, should I talk to her again (and if so when)?
Thanks to all of you.

PS: sorry if this isn't the right forum
bless you just wait on God cling to him as you have a deep need to be accepted and loved Good news you are already accepted in the beloved so keep jesus as your first love Revelation chapter 2 verse 4 then God will send miss God girl /wife AMEN get first thing right second thing will come x i learnt this the hard painfull way God bless ya and ill be praying have faith our God is Awesome xxx Amen
 
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