There are may who believe that sexual attraction between a man and a woman is a natural, God given drive; however, there are some people who do not have have such a drive. Granted, people who claim to be of this orientation claim that they can find people to be aesthetically pleasing, but they feel no more attraction to from them than if they looked at a vase or a flower. Meanwhile, single young believers are often told that singleness it a gift, something that should be cherished between them and God. Many of them feel like singleness is a punishment due to the frustration of having their sexual hopes "deferred." When young believers are who feel this way admit, or suggest, that they ask God to take away their sexual desires, they are often met by leadership who tell them that the idea of God taking away their desire for sexual pleasure is a bad thing. So with this awkward salad of a situation, they are told that it is perfectly natural to want to have sex with someone; but don't don't ask that this desire is taken away but ignore it don't seek sexual gratification outside of marriage but be glad that you have this desire that you cannot fulfill until you are married that distracts you and drives you to frustration also, singleness is a gift. Thoughts?