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dancelove

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SO this came to me while I was on a 30 day fast with my church in October 2008 (I was thirteen) This is the dream: I am on the set of TBN and Pastor Paula White is hosting me.. and I am sitting next to my former Sr. Pastor's son.. we have to be it least 40 of age... Pastor Paula asks me "Did you always want to be a pastor's wife?" I told her I wanted to be a pastor or do something in ministry since the age of four because my mom had me watch Kenneth Copeland and Commander Kellie and watch Dr. Creflo dollar... She asked Tyler (Sr. Pastor's kid) " Did you always know Destine would be your wife?" and he said "It all started over a dance team practice"


that year he started this big commotion because I learned this dance step faster than him.. and the team did not understand why I messed up until they realized the person who taught me didn't know anything.. and they got in trouble because our adult leader told them that I was just trying it out and I knew I wouldn't be able to perform because I joined so late.. and she told them if they respected me and practiced they could perform.. well they didn't respect me so they had to wait a whole month (so I got to perform anyways) because they ticked her off so much.. That following day (October 2008) I had a dream of me crying and feeling really down and depressed over a lie about me saying something obscene to one of my mom's friends daughter over the internet (That dream came to past in October 2011)



I did pray when I was 6 or 7 that the person for me would be confirmed around the age of 15 or 16 and it least two of my friends who were right with the Lord would affirm me.. and 2 of my good strong godly-friends have said they feel it too.. I was standing in service in January 2010 and I heard something say "Tyler is going to be a pastor" two minutes later this apostle prophesy's to Tyler saying 'You were called to be a preacher" and he prayed over him for like 40 minutes.. and when I met him it felt like I knew him all my life.. I first saw in in February 2004.. I remember his eyes and something said "he's it" and I officially met him in December 2007 and something said again "it's him" and he was so kind and sweet.. than he started acting really rude because he started to like me.. and he went as far as swearing at me and my mother just simply because I tapped him on the shoulder because my friends said he probably knew where my phone was at


(I had to confirm that my phone was at home.. so my mom made me ask everyone if they had seen a black phone) so he reacted by cussing at me.. than went on a rant afterwards saying that "I was mocking you back here with my friend because I know you bad and I said 'uh oh she's mad' I was watching you and all" and he said he was always "watching me" and I said I would never slap him (he said I did) because I don't like seeing people hurt and my dad taught me to respect people but what he did was totally disrespectful.. than he said "That's what I love about you.. I love you I would never hurt you" and I'm like yeah sure whatever.. I know this is a lot.. but I would like some help!


I know I am young.... I know marriage is a big step.. but I'm talking like in the future when I'm at last 28
 
SO this came to me while I was on a 30 day fast with my church in October 2008 (I was thirteen) This is the dream: I am on the set of TBN and Pastor Paula White is hosting me.. and I am sitting next to my former Sr. Pastor's son.. we have to be it least 40 of age... Pastor Paula asks me "Did you always want to be a pastor's wife?" I told her I wanted to be a pastor or do something in ministry since the age of four because my mom had me watch Kenneth Copeland and Commander Kellie and watch Dr. Creflo dollar... She asked Tyler (Sr. Pastor's kid) " Did you always know Destine would be your wife?" and he said "It all started over a dance team practice"


that year he started this big commotion because I learned this dance step faster than him.. and the team did not understand why I messed up until they realized the person who taught me didn't know anything.. and they got in trouble because our adult leader told them that I was just trying it out and I knew I wouldn't be able to perform because I joined so late.. and she told them if they respected me and practiced they could perform.. well they didn't respect me so they had to wait a whole month (so I got to perform anyways) because they ticked her off so much.. That following day (October 2008) I had a dream of me crying and feeling really down and depressed over a lie about me saying something obscene to one of my mom's friends daughter over the internet (That dream came to past in October 2011)



I did pray when I was 6 or 7 that the person for me would be confirmed around the age of 15 or 16 and it least two of my friends who were right with the Lord would affirm me.. and 2 of my good strong godly-friends have said they feel it too.. I was standing in service in January 2010 and I heard something say "Tyler is going to be a pastor" two minutes later this apostle prophesy's to Tyler saying 'You were called to be a preacher" and he prayed over him for like 40 minutes.. and when I met him it felt like I knew him all my life.. I first saw in in February 2004.. I remember his eyes and something said "he's it" and I officially met him in December 2007 and something said again "it's him" and he was so kind and sweet.. than he started acting really rude because he started to like me.. and he went as far as swearing at me and my mother just simply because I tapped him on the shoulder because my friends said he probably knew where my phone was at


(I had to confirm that my phone was at home.. so my mom made me ask everyone if they had seen a black phone) so he reacted by cussing at me.. than went on a rant afterwards saying that "I was mocking you back here with my friend because I know you bad and I said 'uh oh she's mad' I was watching you and all" and he said he was always "watching me" and I said I would never slap him (he said I did) because I don't like seeing people hurt and my dad taught me to respect people but what he did was totally disrespectful.. than he said "That's what I love about you.. I love you I would never hurt you" and I'm like yeah sure whatever.. I know this is a lot.. but I would like some help!

I know I am young.... I know marriage is a big step.. but I'm talking like in the future when I'm at last 28

Hi, dancelove. I'm not sure what to make of your post, other than it sounds like you may be confused that because you have desires and needs, that it must mean God wants the same for you. God's ways are not our ways and His thoughts are not our thoughts.

In Proverbs 3: 5 we are told to :
"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding".
I think this includes your's and other people's understanding of what you or they think you should or shouldn't do.

Please don't fall into the trap of thinking because you had a dream, or because you really like a certain boy, or whatever, that it means that everything is set in stone and you should just jump into a situation without considering all the ramifications of it. No matter how sincere a person is, he can still be sincerely wrong.

Plus my personal view is that the tv ministers you mentioned are false prophets.

1 John 4:1 says :
"Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world".

I would suggest that you take this up in prayer to the Lord, knowing He has the best things in mind for you, rather than trusting in dreams, or following money-grubbing televangelists that pervert the gospel, or trusting in what you think is the right thing to do.

I say this in Christian love, not judging you. I will pray for you if you want.
 
Hey dancelove,

Sorry, but it's hard to know where the dream ends and reality begins. Can you try explaining it again?
 
False teachers!

The teachers mentioned are due no respect, and if you keep admiring these people your faith may well be shipwrecked! Scripture is very clear that these people who say they can heal, and give you the "gifts" are not Biblical.

Paula White and Benny Hinn have made very poor choices and not protected their testamony, and have bees seen in placed together that the press has had a field day with. Copeland teaching is not biblical, be cautious, watch your soul. The devil is mighty in using these false teachers.:secret:

Take you Bible and write down the verses these false teachers use in their teaching. Then take your Bible and read the verses you wrote down. Read the verses in context, the before verses and the ones after. Ask the Lord for wisdom to understand the verses. With careful reading you will see these false teachers pick and choose what they want Scripture to say by lifting verses out by themselves, making verses say what in reality the verses do not say.

May God bless you.
 
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