alright i've been struggling like crazy with this one person. He's in my youth group and he's a very knowledgable christian. the problem is the way he treats me. we get in fights at the drop of a hat and he acts as if i'm completely dumb and what i say doens't even mean a thing. at one point he told me "it's as if you're ignorant to being ignorant." i could go on but it'd be pointless.. the main problem is that i can't find a way to just get along with him. i'm sure i'm holding this major grudge because of everything and i don't want to be! i've been praying about it a lot. but it just seems it's always a roller coaster and no matter how much i think we're growing out of it, it always comes back. we just recently had a huge fight and it seems both of us were being extremly prideful but i'm scared to talk about it because i highly doubt he'll admit anything he did was wrong at all and i think we were both wrong. and when that happens is when i usually get mad all over again! i just don't know what to do! now it seems i only see him as a prideful jerk with a hidden agenda to always appear right about everything. should i just apologize for my wrong doings forgive him for anything he did even if he doesn't admit it and then just try to steer clear of him? that'd be easy if we both weren't so involved in everything in church. no matter what he's always there. he's just in my circle of friends so what i do with my friends he's there to! i just don't know what to do!