Please pray that God will remove any doubt that my husband may have concerning the ex-girlfriend. They have known each other since grade school but were in a relationship for 8 yrs during 1983 - 1991. They have a 23 yr old son. My husband and I have been together since 1993. We have been married almost 3 yrs now. We were living together since 1994. We decided to get married because we knew that it was wrong to sleep together without being married and it was wearing on us. We love each other unconditionally. The ex-girlfriend has always been waiting in the wings and trying to poison our relationship since 1993. She had succeeded in 2008 when my husband was having a midlife crisis. He left me and moved in with her. My husband and I never fight, we are best friends. So you can see how devastated I was when he left last September. Since then my husband has been going back and forth with the idea of being with her. We are now living with my parents, which is a strain for everyone. The ex-girlfriend keeps reminding my husband how uncomfortable it is for him there and he should move back in with her and help her pay her rent etc. I told my husband I can not live the rest of my life with this woman interfering with our marriage. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but something keeps him attached to her. They always fight and he has caught her in many lies but keeps on believing her again. She is very dangerous. There is a scripture in the bible that describes this woman (proverbs 5:3-4)
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
She knows how to make him feel sorry for her. She can be very nice at times and reads the Bible alot. She is always throwing scripture at him, but at the same time telling him to divorce me to be with her. She wants him to live with her now, even though he is still married and she thinks God has brought him back to her. I do not want to hate this woman. I pray for her but it gets hard at times because I know it is the devil using her. I know we do not fight against flesh & blood. I just want this whole thing to end. Me and my husband need a new start. He has asked me and I have truly forgiven him. I love him unconditional. We want a new start without this woman in the mix. I pray God removes her completely and send her husband that he has for her. I know she would leave my husband alone if she had a man of her own. I am trying to be a good christian woman. I am trying to keep my focus on God. I know God wants me to have love for this woman because we are all his children and he loves us all the same. I don't want to have any ill feelings for her but its hard when you know somebody willfully wants to destroy your life for their personal gain. I know Gods word it true and he does not lie. We have to be very careful because Satan is a very clever deceiver. I can only stand on the word of God for my life. This is what I can base my life on, nothing else. God is so worthy of all our praise no matter what is going on in our lives. Thank you God for everything.
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
She knows how to make him feel sorry for her. She can be very nice at times and reads the Bible alot. She is always throwing scripture at him, but at the same time telling him to divorce me to be with her. She wants him to live with her now, even though he is still married and she thinks God has brought him back to her. I do not want to hate this woman. I pray for her but it gets hard at times because I know it is the devil using her. I know we do not fight against flesh & blood. I just want this whole thing to end. Me and my husband need a new start. He has asked me and I have truly forgiven him. I love him unconditional. We want a new start without this woman in the mix. I pray God removes her completely and send her husband that he has for her. I know she would leave my husband alone if she had a man of her own. I am trying to be a good christian woman. I am trying to keep my focus on God. I know God wants me to have love for this woman because we are all his children and he loves us all the same. I don't want to have any ill feelings for her but its hard when you know somebody willfully wants to destroy your life for their personal gain. I know Gods word it true and he does not lie. We have to be very careful because Satan is a very clever deceiver. I can only stand on the word of God for my life. This is what I can base my life on, nothing else. God is so worthy of all our praise no matter what is going on in our lives. Thank you God for everything.
