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In this day and age, sometimes I feel that it's NOT enough to be a virtuous woman. Often, I laughing joke that God needs to update the bible because in my dating experience as a 30-something female, I realized that looks matter to men. In fact, they matter a whole lot. Looks are the basis of any kind of interaction with a single, virile man. They even invented a rating system to judge a woman's value and trust me, being a virtuous woman isn't part of the grading criteria. No wonder tons of women get plastic surgery. We're just conforming to the present day demand of the male gender. And then, society wonders why divorce in America persists. It persists when men fail to understand that true value comes from within. It persist when society repeatedly advertises that a woman's value is directly connected to her features.

This is nothing more than a rant. Feel free to object or sympathize LOL
 
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It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man..
Psalm 118:8


Sister @shibby_gurl you are writing about what matters to men and what they may want

Isn't it such an amazing thing to know that the Lord accepts us just the way we are.

And that to Him we are beautiful, precious and loved no matter how we look.

And one day these frail, worldly bodies will be transformed to His wonderful likeness

Hallelujah Praise the Lord
Thank You for Thy perfect word which never fails us

Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when He shall appear, we shall be like Him; for we shall see Him as He is.
1 John 3:2

I will behold Thy face in righteousness: I shall be satisfied, when I awake, with Thy likeness
Psalm 17:15
 
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i agree to some degree. It is true men are visual and God created them like that BUT a true godly man will love you for your heart and will admire your purity and soul more than your physical features! Besides, you are wonderfully made in God's image! You are beautiful!
 
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@Fragrant Grace,

That is true. I stop dating earlier this year, much to the surprise of everyone around me. I just had it. I just got tired with dating and all my hopes getting squandered. I got tired putting my best foot forward and falling flat because men want someone like Kate Upton or some famously over-photoshopped, hyped up, blown up female celebrity.

Im glad you pointed that out. Lately, I've been on this mindset to just fill my mind with wonderful thoughts composed of loving, kind, peaceful thoughts. I thought is start with godly thoughts.

You are right, sister. Forget men and focus on God.
 
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i agree to some degree. It is true men are visual and God created them like that BUT a true godly man will love you for your heart and will admire your purity and soul more than your physical features! Besides, you are wonderfully made in God's image! You are beautiful!
Men as visual creatures is, in my opinion, a lame excuse. And when we women subscribe to that silly notion, we might as well agree to the notion that we have nothing deeper to offer in a relationship. Hence, the increasing incidence of plastic surgeries even in female teenagers. So yes I have heard of that cliche being thrown around but I don't buy it. Neither should you.
 
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The World judgment is by sight. God children Should be judging by the heart Spirit]

It much more important to have a person who is of God than the best looking woman on earth.

We can LOVE anyone. God put His prefect love within us so we could. Also i found our love grows stronger as time goes on. No matter how our mate appears in the flesh. Love does not die. Lust does.
 
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When speaking of the children of Satan you are correct, and the feminist woman should not be excluded from your rant.

I myself being a single man would love to find a woman that dresses modestly, loves Christ, and would play the supportive proverbs 31 role.

Blair linne wrote a beautiful poem on beauty:

" Beauty is sold in exchange for a “dime” Nothing to attract us to You, yet we worship Your creation as fine Captivated by its forbidden fruit Pleasing our senses, so we suppress the truth And eat the lie Media’s fig leaf deadening our soul and mind Sin blinding us to You The only objective Beauty that’s truly absolute Hidden in the symmetry of Your goodness, glory and truth Each attribute working harmoniously Justice with patience, wrath with graciousness Omnipotence with humility, long-suffering with faithfulness Each a note to a sweet melody The ultimate hymn entitled “God’s Beauty” Immutable, no change Because “dimes” get lost daydreaming in dark gutters Unable to hear the call to wake up They, the noose, dripping honeysuckle Lips pasted on with Mac makeup If they truly beheld Your beauty You’d make magazines and Mattell go bankrupt You sent Your Beloved to be lifted up On a beautiful, seemingly ugly cross The visible image of Your hiddenness Only You are beautiful and yet invisible True beauty is spiritual

Therefore, sanctify our worldly minds Your complexion is unappealing to lustful eyes Besides, apart from new birth in Christ Sinners beholding Your Holy beauty would die Therefore, beauty residing in the eye of the beholder is a lie It is found in the Beautiful One- The Most High"
 
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