Is it still adultery when you are dreaming having sex with someone else. I don't have any control over my dreams. Even though I read the word and hear the word i still have these dreams sometimes. A couple of times I dreamed my wife was having sex with me right there and I grabbed her and hit her. I prayed real hard about that dream. So, Jesus said in his sermon on the mount that, "It is written that Thou shall not commit Adultery. I say even if a man (woman) looks at a woman (man) and lust after them has commited adultery". These are not the exact words, but you get the meaning. Does this scripture pretain to my question? I don't come tot this site offend because no one is ever on line. So, email me at either [email protected] or [email protected] I have other questions, if I receive a reply to this I will post them. Have a Blessed and wonderful day.