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Guys ,this is tickling if you wish.
I'm almost confessing confussion,
if not then it could be some fairytale
I wanna know this because its hard on me.I had a vibrant soulmate and things seemed moving towards an assurance of once walking the aisle,but events turned the table on me, she quitely slipped of my hand.
Everytime i'm praying to God about what his will is for me , i keep recieving atleast a messege from this babe on the spot, yes ,i mean on the spot.
It happened over 3 times now on my phone at unexpected times, but i have not expressed my intentions to her or asked her out for a date.I kinda have a different imagination of a girl of sorts not hers.
What do i do , should i take her to be the one?
Hey ,give me a break, a voice tells me she is but my heart says she is not, so to cure it ,i have suspended everything for now.Could she be the one?
 
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Smilly,
I have been where you are, and I want to encourage you. I think you are doing the right thing by puting it all on hold. Our Heavenly Father knows you better than you know yourself, and He is more than able to make it crystal clear to you that He has placed your soulmate in your life. I believe she will be in your heart, mind, and you will Love God more for giving her to you. Don't look for signs, feelings, or mans confirmation, just know when it is right there will be no confusion, because our Father is not the author of confusion.
your brother
brokenman
 
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Brokenman,

Only God knows how i needed a word like yours.Thankyou
bro for sharing with me the
burden of trusting God.Not easy but possible.

Smilly
 
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Hello dear brother...
Perhaps I should have asked this question long ago... as I have now attained 3 score years and much wisdom from retrospect in school of errors.

So, I hear you with both experience and compassion now salted through and through with the word.

Read all of Proverbs regarding women, particularly the alluring one.

That is the one who solicits you for personal gain.

Also continue to guard your heart and think spiritually not in flesh.

I was once captivated by a then new perfume... Phermones... Satan has many deceptions. If she calls when you are only thinking silently the prayer regarding a mate, I would then say it may (emphasis MAY) have more relevance. You are still responsible for prayer and testing the answers and yourself.

It is good to know "Our idea" may be an idol of our own creation. CHeck with the Father in prayer and word, for HIS idea specific for you...

Flesh will almost always cloud objective discernment... so keep a safe objective distance until a series of confirmations and most importantly do not listen to the Prophesy of others but of your own spirit and heart first. The only word the enemy cannot replicate consistently, is FUTURE knowing, the prophetic. He is locked in time with us.

If after above this curious coincidence lady, passes above strict tests... you have the hard task of yourself discerning. God watches our decisionmaking with great interest. It is how we prove ourselves... Balance that with not hiding your talent and having it taken.

Hurry is not encouraged. Two verses to ponder:
Psa 31:22 For I said in my haste, I am cut off from before thine eyes: nevertheless thou heardest the voice of my supplications when I cried unto thee. Psa 31:23 O love the LORD, all ye his saints: for the LORD preserveth the faithful, and plentifully rewardeth the proud doer (of HIS WILL). Psa 31:24 Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD.


Isa 28:16 Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD, Behold, I lay in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a precious corner stone, a sure foundation: he that believeth shall not make haste.
Isa 28:17 Judgment also will I lay to the line, and righteousness to the plummet: and the hail shall sweep away the refuge of lies, and the waters shall overflow the hiding place.

All things will be revealed to those who wait (earnestly combine with - as twisting together strands of a rope) on the LORD.

May THE FATHER mercifly grant you HIS perfect will, and guide your heart, mind, and understanding into all wisdom.

Ari
 
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Now Guys, you have come closer to what i wanted to find out.
Two things here which are very prominent.
1)There are times when am real buffeted with decision making and am like ,Ok, father God speak to me in light of this matter,so in the wake of that she either calls or texts a messege.We are not tight buddies,but somewhat she reaches to me at such moments of prayer.
Once, i was fasting ,she called just to find how i was doing, secondly i was doing meditative prayers after reading the word,she texted to pass a regard, thirdly , i was grappling with the thought of whether she really was then i said God Let her call come through and indeed it came after a protracted lapse without any communication.Do you get the picture?
2) There has been no room for her to speculate that i could be facing something like this because ever since this started to happen i have kept a low profile, and away for as much as i can.Never put myself in a suspect position.
3)We live in different towns ,we dont know each other's aquaintances so as to kind of leak any informations anywhere.
Every passing day i'm getting convicted the more though i still maintained my resolve to put on hold......
thanks
 
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And remember in all those moments ,her calls and texts are subsequent to my prayer or in the process , so dont take it for mere hello from just a friend.Remember i said the call or messeges come spot-on....
 
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Wait, wait a minute here.

Ok, seriously now!

We should be asking this question and only this: What is her current relationship with God now? Forget coincidences. What does she believe? Only by knowing this will you know if she is the right one for you. Is she saved? Is she a godly woman who loves Christ oh so much? Is her whole heart bent on giving HIM glory? Does she understand what the Gospel is? Does she understand that godly sorrow over sin produces repentance leading to salvation--2 Cor. 7:9? Does her life reflect one of purity? Is she sincere and loving? Does she have a desire to see the lost saved?

These question will reveal if she is the right one for you.


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