I was talking to a widow and she was weird about me taking this old guy at church to a musuem as Id promised him and asked if she would want to come too.,.as if anything was going to happen its not a DATE for goodness sakes, my dad and brother works at the museum. She goes you know hes married and I go YES. Maybe his wife is not intersted in transport!? (Its a transport museum). See people are just weird, why cant brothers and sisters go out together or does it have to be you drag your other half around all the time, I dont know. Or does it have go be you cant go out with anyone cos they are married. I dont know. I work with my boss...leader, what you call it...i have three workmates and they are all men right, does it matter if they are married or not, it shouldnt. We go out to do work! I am not married to them!!! Actually it would be weird to be married to someone from work. Go to work, see them, come home... you still there lol. You dont seem to get a break if you married. Well technically you cant you vowed to be bound to them for life...but it was your choice. Up to you both to honor it. This is when it all falls apart because when people dont honor their vows, so somewhere along the line one or both lied to each other.