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how do you know when you find your soulmate?

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ok so ya i want to know because their's this guy i really like and it's not just something that's going away I feel really drawn to him and i can't wait to see him and he just makes me happy and comfortable and i don't know if it will go away or not. I just want to know how can you tell?
 
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Well one way i have the same question. I'm still wondering who my soulmate is, but i know that when the time comes, i think that God will show us and we will just know. I'm not saying that this guy isn't your soulmate but the feelings that you may be having may be just because you like this guy. Wait for God to show you definitely and wait for His timing and everything will fall into place. God bless you girl!!
 
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Yeh i think the best advice for anything really is to seek god!! thats the best thing to do in any decision making!! or any major (even minor) life changing situations. I made the mistake of thinking that one particular girl might be the one for me and i put my heart on the line and as i posted in another thread, this girl god called to another nation and is now living in another nation!! so just really seek god thats the best advice i can give you
 
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Blondie16705 said:
Well one way i have the same question. I'm still wondering who my soulmate is, but i know that when the time comes, i think that God will show us and we will just know. I'm not saying that this guy isn't your soulmate but the feelings that you may be having may be just because you like this guy. Wait for God to show you definitely and wait for His timing and everything will fall into place. God bless you girl!!

im in the same boat as you are? i just want to know how do you deal with not having any idea who your soulmate will be? it drives me crazy!! I try not to think about it too much but it consumes my mind more than it should!! the thing that drives me crazy is not knowing anything at all about it like when im going to meet them, have i already met them, who is it, what are they like, when its going to happen etc...
 
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you have all pretty much covered the alread aspects of the question..

give your friend ship up to God and se what happens and things will progress form thier or they will not. it is up to God what he has in store for you... maby this person is your Soul Mate and maby it is not. i guess God is showign you how much your soul mate is goignt o be better if it is not your soul mate... :smile::smile:

Love simon!!!
 
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Mmhmm... There are several ways to discern who is your "God's will" meaning the person who was meant to spend the rest of their life on earth with you (in other words, your husband/wife). Sometimes God will speak through the man and the woman, telling them (whether it somehow be through friends, talking with each other, the Bible, or even audible voice) that they are for each other. After that confirmation, those two are not supposed to get married right away. They are to first grow with each other through God, have Bible studies together, pray together, and etc. Only until when God gives another signal, will it be okay for them to marry.

Basically, you just hand over the pen of your life to God and He writes your love story for you. ^-^
 
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Hello sister - if he is one who will encourage you to grow as a person, accepts you for who you are and places you before himself , then the Lord has guided you to a respectful, loving man. Love is lawys about making little sacrifices in the spirit of harmony, accepting one's faults as part of the whole package and loving you all the better for them. I wish you luck and the guiding hand of our Saviour in your quest.
 
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ummm...well!!!
i dont know...had that feeling once too and i dont know but for some reason that feeling went away when i started praying bout my feelings and asked god to show me if he is the right person for me!!and i dont know i just somehow lost the feeling for this very nice guy and yeah i think it was just gods way of showing me that he wasnt the right guy for me!!
but i dont know if it was that what god wanted to tell me....i just have no idea...so mybe u can tell that im still very confused cause this all happened like last month or so...
well anyways
god will tell and show u whats the right thing to do and if he is the "right" one

god bless
kara
 
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Well yeah true that, and plus you gotta knwo that it was from God that it will make you happy and not Satan tryign to make you unhappy, but then again i dont knwo the situation you were in... LOL well actually i do but still you know, i dont know how you really felt on the insides i was not there when it all happened and for thus i apologise...

Sorry Sister... well any way hope we can talk more soon i guess...

Love simon!!!
 
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awwwww...how sweet...
like i told u earlier it really okay!!!!
dont have to be sorry bout that.....u were there for me in other times....
but yeah its okay...it really is...
i mean i didnt really talk to u heaps so yeah sorry bout that too....

ummm...yeah we´ll talk more soon...hope so....

god bless
kara
 
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hey yeah i agree we;ll have to talk some time soon catch up on what's been goign on. so yeah i agrre and thanks for understanding. i can kinda be wrapped up in my own little world @ times so yeah but it all coolio cos we both understand each other so yeah!!!

Love Simon!!!
 
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There is no such mumbo jumbo as a soulmate. That is something man has created and such thinking is not in alignment with God's word. :unlove: Soulmate is a belief aligning with astrology which is categorized with the other idolatrous beliefs.
 
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One thing is that you must make sure the person is saved and really submitted to God. And don't let people talk you into trying to change that person, because that person has to want to change. Plus, it takes patience when the right one comes around. So you really must pray and seek the face of God. Because you don't want to marry the wrong person.
 
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There was a man, who died for the seek of us (sinners), this man was died on cross in the Calvery, and has a name which whoever hear this name will bow for him, both on earth and heaven, and this name is J.E.S.U.S Jesus.... He called his disciple and ask them who did people says i am, they answered him, some says John the baptis, and some Elijah etc. and Jesus ask them who do u said i am, and Peter answered Messiah, Jesus tells him from today, you are a rock and in this rock i will build my Church, even death can sees it, whatever things you prohibitted on earth, will be prohibitted in heaven, and whatsoever you permitted on earth will be permitted in heaven. In this word i stand, and telling the people on earth Especially people at Talkjesus that God has given us power to pool and destroy all the power of enemies that will come against our life, business, families and churches. Let us pray all the time and destroy their plan, Let us pray so God will give us an inner Strength Let us have hope and be prayering all the days of our life's, that God will help us.

Thanks
 
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I don't believe in soulmates simply because who we love is a choice we make whether it's a good choice or a bad one it's up to us because of free will but God will send us someone if only if we ask Him to.
You have to be able to ask all the right questions in order to get the right answers. You need to make a list of your expections of marriage you have to be specific in making your request if not you will allow your feelings to overshadow your expectations. While dating you should ask questions as if you were taking an application and the first red flag should let you know whether you should continue or not. When we are dating we tend to think we can change peoples bad habits and ways and then we go into a marriage thinking things will get better when they actually get worst trust me. Then we end up praying and asking God to fix our messed up relationship that sometimes end up in divorce. So set some goals for yourself and stick to them be specific and God will send you someone that fits your profile.
Be Blessed!

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