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There's this friend of mine here in my school really needs help..so i hope to get advice from u in able for me to help her.

This friend of mine is my classmate.She's a smart and nice girl.And due to her family circumstances,she choose to become lesbain.And the girl she like now is me.So i didnt talk to her in school much but i get to know her probelms she facing online.
She told me that she is not born lesbain that i believe everyone doesn't.But it started this desire for the love of women during the age of 11 years old.This is because terrible things happen to her.Her father rape her on the age of 11.So she tried to confront one of her teacher in her primary school to get help.But the poor little girl got mollested by the teacher!So later on,she tried to tell her mum about all these things happen...even her own mum does not believe in her!So she felt helpless now and she hate man a lot!Than she decided to seek for women love's instead.She cant forgive her dad but she pretend to because she forgave him because of money.But the hatred towards her dad and men still in her.

So later on..I shared with her about christ.I believe she really does need healing and be set free!She was not open with the gospel and she said that she doesnt believe in god!She said she believes in herself and she believes that money can solves everything, that why she pretended to forgive her dad.So i tried explain to her that she should give Jesus a chance to do wonderful things in her and god can set her free.She still does not believes untill i challenged her.I challenged her that give god to have his way in her first and you will see what god can do.I said that if she feels god cant help her then I ask her not to believe!I told her i know god is real and he will be able to help her and set her free!

So i need your advice..what should i do next?
 
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Good seeds produce good fruit

Romans 2:4 tells us that it is Gods kindness that leads us to repentance.
It is Gods kindness in many aspects that lead us all to repentance. Giving us Jesus; making a way for us; his grace. Also his reflected kindness in you Mei Fong. The fact that his Holy Spirit lives in you, and you are his representitive and shining light to this young woman in distress. You are indeed sowing seeds, not only of the truth in Gods word but also our wonderful Father in heavens loving kindness.

I agree, keep doing what you are doing.
 
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Theosebes said:
Romans 2:4 tells us that it is Gods kindness that leads us to repentance.
It is Gods kindness in many aspects that lead us all to repentance. Giving us Jesus; making a way for us; his grace. Also his reflected kindness in you Mei Fong. The fact that his Holy Spirit lives in you, and you are his representitive and shining light to this young woman in distress. You are indeed sowing seeds, not only of the truth in Gods word but also our wonderful Father in heavens loving kindness.

I agree, keep doing what you are doing.
You have done well. Do not give up. The first step is for her to come to Christ in repentance.Then she needs to come to the place of forgiveness, as difficult as it may be, but that will lift the burden, and pave the way for fulness in her healing.
 
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mei fong said:
There's this friend of mine here in my school really needs help..so i hope to get advice from u in able for me to help her.

This friend of mine is my classmate.She's a smart and nice girl.And due to her family circumstances,she choose to become lesbain.And the girl she like now is me.So i didnt talk to her in school much but i get to know her probelms she facing online.
She told me that she is not born lesbain that i believe everyone doesn't.But it started this desire for the love of women during the age of 11 years old.This is because terrible things happen to her.Her father rape her on the age of 11.So she tried to confront one of her teacher in her primary school to get help.But the poor little girl got mollested by the teacher!So later on,she tried to tell her mum about all these things happen...even her own mum does not believe in her!So she felt helpless now and she hate man a lot!Than she decided to seek for women love's instead.She cant forgive her dad but she pretend to because she forgave him because of money.But the hatred towards her dad and men still in her.

So later on..I shared with her about christ.I believe she really does need healing and be set free!She was not open with the gospel and she said that she doesnt believe in god!She said she believes in herself and she believes that money can solves everything, that why she pretended to forgive her dad.So i tried explain to her that she should give Jesus a chance to do wonderful things in her and god can set her free.She still does not believes untill i challenged her.I challenged her that give god to have his way in her first and you will see what god can do.I said that if she feels god cant help her then I ask her not to believe!I told her i know god is real and he will be able to help her and set her free!

So i need your advice..what should i do next?
You have done well. Do not give up. The first step is for her to come to Christ in repentance.Then she needs to come to the place of forgiveness, as difficult as it may be, but that will lift the burden, and pave the way for fulness in her healing.
 

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