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fat and no fat

i think i am truly and terrbaly over weight but if god made me like this and i pray every night not to be like this then why doesnt he come to my needs i feel like just killing miself or not that far but just cuttin mi wrists or sumthing im really stressed out please help Follow Jesus (pm me if u want)
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hey there nothing is gonna happen to you GOD loves you no matter hat and he hasnt yet came becasue he may be workin on other areas of your body to help you so dont worry ill keep your nam and soul in my heart God Bless
hi GIML ... have you ever heard of weight watchers?. . .its a fun and challenging way to reduce weight. .. also if you do it with a friend or family member together. . .check into it with your mom. .. :love: GBU ...
OH Sammie. I can't really tell you anything, but I do love you girl. you know it. Remember, even more than my love, God is right by your side. Come to the discussion this friday ok? I think you will learn something valuable there. Well I will email you girl, remember i love you, bye bye
Ur Sis, Tanya:) :kiss:
Sammi, every journey we must take in life begins with a single step, followed by one single step at a time. You have called out to God for help, and that`s the first step to success for a child of God, in anything we attempt to overcome. When we pray to God for "help", He answers, usually thru others, by providing us with the solution(s) as it pertains to our particular need.

What I want to share is the next most important step, when it comes to health and weight loss. The verse below speaks of spiritual living waters, but water also gives physical life, because God designed us so the single most critical thing we need to live and function with optimum health is water. It is said to be: "The Most Powerful Healing Substance Known To Man"
You can "google" for the tons of info on this subject, so I won`t go into that, but I`d like to make a suggestion I made to my niece a short while back, and she was amazed at the results!

For every hour you are awake, drink a large full glass of water. That`s it. No substitutes, and no other drinks. (unless it`s pure fruit or veggie juice, but still drink the water!)
Hydrating your body (the brain is 85% water) provides mental clarity,
gets rid of legarthy, sluggishness, and creates a feeling of well being.
(Dehydration is a key stress factor!) If you feel great, you will probably be
motivated to do more of the things you enjoy, that combine exercise with having fun!

It is also important to get a thorough check-up by a doctor to rule out any underlying health problems, but drinking lots of water, and getting lots of exercise, will really help you to get and stay healthy.
And because i`m a typical mom, I have to add, eat those fruits and veggies!

God loves YOU! :love:

Joh 4:10 Jesus answered and said unto her, If thou knewest the gift of God, and who it is that saith to thee, Give me to drink; thou wouldest have asked of him, and he would have given thee living water.
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We all love you and GOD loves you. These words from us are from GOD as well - showing you love and compassion for you, His child.

As for eating / weight issues find a good gym to work out at and do it dialy, take 2 days off a week. Do some cardio, enjoy yourself and eat healthy. GOD will give you strength to do all these if you call out ot him in Jesus' name.
I always hate talking about weight!
I feel like it controles my life, all I do is think about weight, you see I have some problems, I have bulimia I'm doing OK, God is helping me I've stopped throwing up and I'm quite OK, but I never stop thinking how I look, and I know Satan is lying to me about my appearence, because I look fine and I'm not overweight, but it's still there.
The reason why I'm writting this is because I don't want you to take the easy way out.First what I want you to do is pray, cause God is there and he is listening.He will help you, talk to someone you trust in your family and tell tehm how you feel about your weight situation, because, if you want to loose weight you will need someone that will be with you.Try doing a sport, that you like, and eat normaly, just in smaller portions, you'll see, you will do it. If you really want to do it you will ofcourse have to stop eating comfort food, like chips, and chocolate, candy, because that will only make you feel guiltier.Don't give up, you can do it you are still young, and belive suicide is not the right anwser to your problems.
Im not bein horrid or anythink but really i cant go to weightwatchers or the gym for 1. my mom wont go with me already asked and 2. i cant go to the gym as i have to get a membership card which u have to pay 4 how am i supposed to do tht i may as well give up all 2getha sam
Sammie, no don't give up. remember. Look at the bible it says this:
Ecclesiastes 3:11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also He has put eternity in their hearts, except that no one can find out the work that God does from beginning to end.
God also says not to judge. God is the only right judge, what right does anyone, including you, have a right to judge you? God didn't give you the right, even to judge yourself.
John 7:24 Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.
Well girl, remember one think, you are beautiful in God's eyes and I'm sure you're a lil princess (i ussually never call people that becuase it's my nickname, but you're special) I love you girl, GOD bless you greatly, bye bye
Tanya - still praying for you
Hey. . .Dont give up! ! !

God_is_my_life said:
Im not bein horrid or anythink but really i cant go to weightwatchers or the gym for 1. my mom wont go with me already asked and 2. i cant go to the gym as i have to get a membership card which u have to pay 4 how am i supposed to do tht i may as well give up all 2getha sam

Giving up is not an OPTION in Gods dictionary! ! !

Ok, if you want to, I help you here online to control your eating habit and let you know what to watch for and what not to eat so much .. .

But that will be real work, commitment and discipline. . .and a fun experiment for both of us. . .

Pm me . . .if you desire real help and commit under discipline to be accountable to me!

Until then. .. we pray for your heart to be filled with joy and love. . .and you start drinking THAT glass of water each hour. . .ok :love:

We love you, and we are all here for you .. . GBU, Dot
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Hello! I've read about you. You don't even know how much you value. Please don't leave your childhood and your innocence pass. God loves you, and He loves everyone.

I'm 15 and I'm from Romania. I would like to talk to you. Maybe I'll send you a pm after a few hours.

Don't give up, girl! Just pray and God will help you.
Beauty doesn't mean make-up or skinny body. Beauty means your invaluable part of you, your soul.

I would like to write you the lyrics of a singer, Jaci Velasquez.

God Loves You Lyrics

In the quiet, love is reaching.
It's yours to hold,
Be still and know that
Even when you're lost and lonely,
And hope is gone, you're not alone.

Far beyond the understanding,
There's a hand that leads,
If you believe.

Through the darkness, see the light.
Remember God loves you.

The road ahead is long and winding.
With eyes of faith, you'll find the way, yeah.
And when the journey leaves you weary,
You can rest in the comfort of heaven's arms -
Sweet loving arms.

And peace will follow.
Peace be with you always,
As you go.
For now you know that...

Through the darkness, there's a light.
Remember God loves you.

When you open up your heart,
His love will meet you where you are.
He will always be a part of everything you do.
He is here to set you free,
And give you all the strength you need
To carry on, to carry on.

Through the darkness, see the light.
Remember God loves you. (remember, remember)
Remember God loves you.
I like that

irina2005 said:
When you open up your heart,
His love will meet you where you are.
He will always be a part of everything you do.
He is here to set you free,
And give you all the strength you need
To carry on, to carry on.

Thank you Irina :thumbs_up
Don't be so hard on yourself and don't give up!

Hey, I'm 13 and I know what people our age feel about weight because we are always influenced by media and such. But my advice to you would be to join a sports team. Healthy exercise and eat healthy foods! Continue to pray about it! Don't do things likes those scary crash diets, but have fun with it and be patient! Sometimes everyone feels like they are overweight but a lot of times it is all in your head too! My final advice to you is to talk with your parents or a doctor if you are concerned about your weight they will be able to help you out!
Hey there

I myself have suffered a deteriorated level of fitness. However to the original question there is something that you said that I just wanted to go through as I feel that it is important. I used to pray and pray for something to happen and then it hit me. 9 times out of 10 he needs you to be doing something, you need to be moving for him to open doors for you. Im busy working on my health, and Im praying for certain ailments to be healed but Im doing things to change it as well. A change of diet, being more active, stress management amongst others. All in all Im doing all I can to see a change and I know that it will. You need to be like a vehicle, just keep moving but let God steer you. If that makes sense lol. All the best. When it gets tough, Satan likes to throw things in my way, like hopelessness, frustration. But those are good energy sources if you can channel it correctly, channel it against Satan and use it to add drive to your cause, you will be surprised how effective this is. Good luck and God speed


I know that this thread is long been in-active yet I still would like to have the chance to ask for prayers about me getting some weight these past few months and indeed I got alot of unpleasant comments from my friends, family members, co workers that I know lessen my confidence. It indeed affected me so much... though they give it as a joke yet behind my back I heard them commenting foul words into my appearance lately... I know I am responsbile in anything that I intake into my body and I am askign for your prayers that I may have discipline in everything most especially in foods... thank you and God bless!
Have you ever tried fasting? Fasting not only helps me lose weight, but it also honors God. I'm not saying everyday, but maybe twice a week or even once per week. Just tell yourself that you're going to fast and not eat anything for 12 or 24 hours and do it. The Bible says that you don't want to let those around you know you're fasting, just let it be between you and God.

Don't do it every day though, you'll starve yourself and it won't be honoring God. I will pray for you! Don't give up, that's exactly what Satan wants you to do.