A few years ago I was very close to the Lord and met my current wife. Soon after being married things our relationship took a turn for the worse. To me I was being manipulated all the time and if it didnt go her way I got the silent treatment. I slowly started to change for the worse and even got to the point that that raising my voice and saying mean things was the norm. I had never done anything like that and felt horrible but the constant pressure she put on me was unbearable. It's not an excuse bc I take full responsibility for it. It got to the point that I caught her on a dating site talking to a guy. We have tried counseling and tried to talk to each other to work it out but we just dont understand each other. We are currently separated and I am drawing closer to the Lord every day. I want to do the right thing but our conversations turn into arguments. Can I get your advice on this?