scofieldII
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Ephesians 5:25- Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.
When myy wife fell ill, I had the daunting task of taking care of the kids. I cooked, washed dishes, made special trips to the store for her and bathed the kids. When i saw all that I had done, I thought to myself, I deserve extra credit and reciprocal service when she gets better. Before I gave myself too many pats on the back, however, the Holy Spirit reminded me that I was doing my privilege and duty as a christian husband.
In Paul's time, many believed the husband's needs dominated the household and the wife existed to fulfil his needs and serve him. The christian view is quite different, however. Women are seen as persons of equal worth.The wife was transformed from an accessory to a person of intrinsic value, becoming the focus of her husband's concern. Instead of demanding that she live for him, he was to serve her!
As husbands pursue christianlikeness, they have the privilege and duty to sacrifice, nurture and care for their wives.-Marvin Williams
Despite the faults that spouses may have, their marriage can still thrive; but both must look to God for help, He'll keep their love alive.-Branon
If you think it's possible to love your wife too much, you probably haven't loved her enough.:thumbs_up
When myy wife fell ill, I had the daunting task of taking care of the kids. I cooked, washed dishes, made special trips to the store for her and bathed the kids. When i saw all that I had done, I thought to myself, I deserve extra credit and reciprocal service when she gets better. Before I gave myself too many pats on the back, however, the Holy Spirit reminded me that I was doing my privilege and duty as a christian husband.
In Paul's time, many believed the husband's needs dominated the household and the wife existed to fulfil his needs and serve him. The christian view is quite different, however. Women are seen as persons of equal worth.The wife was transformed from an accessory to a person of intrinsic value, becoming the focus of her husband's concern. Instead of demanding that she live for him, he was to serve her!
As husbands pursue christianlikeness, they have the privilege and duty to sacrifice, nurture and care for their wives.-Marvin Williams
Despite the faults that spouses may have, their marriage can still thrive; but both must look to God for help, He'll keep their love alive.-Branon
If you think it's possible to love your wife too much, you probably haven't loved her enough.:thumbs_up