Have a friend that shared an issue with me but would like some biblical wisdom on. My friends mum is a widow and her brother (who is single) stays home to look after his mum. The daughter visits her mum once a week to take her mum out, give her brother a breather, as the mum is housebound, and isnt really too active, needs a wheelchair and in her 80s. Her brother isnt talking to her now because she went away on holiday with her family (shes married with three children) and they are retired and always going away on holiday. The brother got sick while she was away and was mad at her cos she wasnt there to take mum out, and complained he never had a holiday cos he always had to look after mum. Well, she couldnt help going away at that time as was all planned and couldnt forsee her brother would be sick, but on the other hand I could understand why her brother didnt want to talk to her cos she is always going away on holidays with her husband that are quite expensive and he never has one. Not one. So I said well give your brother a break and go look after your mum for a week, so says no thats never going to happen as she doesnt want to live at home again. Not even for just a week. She said if her mum wants to she can stay at her place but her mum doesnt want to. So her brother is never going to have a holiday, ever, apart from the one day in the week when the sister visits her mum. Ok, something isnt right here can you discern what it is...should the brother forgive the sister for always going away on holiday and not looking after her mum while he never has one? Or is it the mum at fault for being so needy and not wanting to stay with the daughter when there is room, or is the daughter being unmerciful? Well they arent speaking to each other, I dont know the son, hes not a believer but the daughter is.