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Confidence in the Midst of Distress

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Confidence in the Midst of Distress
Charles Stanley

PSALM 46:1-11

"I'm outta here!" Most of us will feel this way at some point in our lives. When stress in daily living becomes unbearable, we want to escape. We may want out of jobs, relationships, or some other difficult situation. We think we can't handle things the way they are because they are much too stressful. So we decide we are walking out. Moving on. Heading for anywhere but where we are.

God has a powerful truth for us to hear. The way to handle stressful situations is to cease fighting against them and instead to be at rest. To the psalmist, this rest meant being still and knowing God. (Psalm 46:10 NIV) Jesus described it as a peacefulness that we will both find and receive as we spend time learning from Him. (Matthew 11:28-30) Our human instinct clamors for us to escape but God calls us to draw near and absorb the truths of Scripture.

Most of all, He wants us to know who He is. As we believe the truth of His sovereignty (1 Chronicles 29:11) and accept both the absolute goodness of His plans (Jeremiah 29:11) and His deep, abiding love for us (Ephesians 3:17-19), we will grow in trust. Then we will find it easier to "be still" and not to respond like the world, which says, "I'm outta here."

Our stress need not become distress. With an accurate understanding of our heavenly Father, we will be able to walk through circumstances with an inner quietness (Galatians 5:22) and genuine confidence. (Hebrews 13:6) This is our privilege as God's children.
I agree to a point.

Sometimes relationships can be so toxic that you have to walk or to seperate. I know this from experience.

Sometimes a particular situation or realtionship 'makes provision for the flesh' and it has to be 'plucked' in order that we might not be tempted to sin.

What we have to know is did Jesus lead us into this situation/relationship in the first place or did we do it because of the flesh.

Are we so afraid of not having fellowship or not being part of the crowd or looking like a 'holy weirdo' that we fellowship with people who are not 'rowing' the same way we are rowing.