The CNN news correspondents very much enjoyed that broadcast. Seriously, your biggest problem is a person who goes to church and believes what the Good Book teaches about traditional relationships and has the audacity to serve you a sandwich?
Homophobia - a fear of men. I do not have a fear of men, but I do have to aversion to men sleeping with men as a substitute for men sleeping with women. Hitler called such an attitude the Big Lie. Keep saying it enough and convincingly enough and some will believe it.
"I'm not getting my way and I don't like it". Welcome to the club.