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broke up after strife but i read about strife and want to repair but she says too late!

Discussion in 'Prayer Request' started by robbiestar777, Nov 18, 2016.

  1. broke up after strife but i read about strife and want to repair but she says too late!
    My name is Robbie & this prayer is for Shannon who i love dearly the mother of my child.we are separated because i couldn't handle the strife but i am back! .Her mom died of cancer last year and her dad is needy now & using her and controlling her and influence her to keep away from me & don't know why? hes cusses a lot and non christian and now she has to be a parent to her mentally retarded 37 year old brother because her dad cant because hes lazy.I see her personality changing and cursing god lately for the first time saying(god blank) a lot like her dad. I have never seen her say that!I think Shannon is doing ungodly things, meeting a man & drinking with him behind my back to get her mind off things as her non christian friends encourage because she came home 4hrs late several times & i can smell & tell shes drinking but denies it. She is so lost & I see her drinking wine at home from what shes dealing with & talks about dying and says i wish i was never born and i am cursed!and she cries & i hold her,i give scripture and she just throws it away and say god hates me!She thinks now its easier to be single & its more stress to be with me because i am softly preaching to her & says that is stress & now i am annoying:( she is so mean to me lately & cold & cursing at me for no reason.I cook,i do laundry & all the chores and says she doesn't care.I want her to love me again and trust me and give us a chance and stay as a family i want it to work.I left for a while but realized i should work it out. but she said you left me in my stress!she now thinks i am conning her to get back, I am not!she struggles with trusting me & there are people trying to influence her to sin & be single and live life. I see what Satan is doing..i pray she loves me again and trust me and believes me & wants to work it out(one chance to prove to her) she said how can i believe you and i take you back and you are not there for me!I want us to get back together & raise our child together. we act like a family and both in same room only 30 minutes a day with our child and at times laughing together and cooking together cause she is a workaholic & cant sit still she says? shes to independent & never needed anyone she says ,why cant we be a family? i wish i had more time with her to repair,but goes to bed when she comes home.And says i don't have time for a relationship! yea because shes always working or with her brother at his care home! she does things with our daughter , like zoo and places ,but not with me and doesn't invite me? she says shes all i need. seems so selfish. and it hurts me so bad and she says i sound needy and clingy. times shes nice and responds & other times ignores me what do i do?i don't know who is influencing her,but that is what it seems & she says i have everyone helping me watch our daughter why do i need you really at all? and they would cook for me or clean for me so its not special that you do it. and times she thanks me. is she bipolar? or cant sit still to think what she says or does? help me because it giving me depression and i cant eat or sleep and i love her.i just wish god would fix her and she loves me again and trust me.

    Robbie
     
  2. God can only fix someone who is willing to be fixed in submission to Him. She will probably have to hit rock bottom and see her new friends as a bad influence before she changes. Pray for her, and like God, love those you do without expecting to be loved back. Trust in God to help you if she wont.
     
  3. they are not new friends and actually nice women that babysit for her its that man who i caught drinking with her by stopping by..i see what hes doing bringing beer over..and shes a gym coach and teacher and very smart...shes very strong..its her pride and mad i left her and i did not want to try and now i do..but said its too long...i just see her becoming evil from her not liking god because she blames him for all her problems from her mom dying..and now her dad is dying and now she is a guardian over her brother ....she cries alot over stress and i think she doesn't care anymore is why she is sinning..i ask you pray she gets with god and shes convicted and stays out of temptation that the devil is doing...and thanks :)
     
  4. Difficult situation...I feel for you...and her, and the innocent child caught up in all of this.

    Take authority in the name of Jesus, and command that the devil takes his hands off of your family. All of us prayer warriors are a good thing, agreeing with you, but since you are in the midst of this battle, I feel you need to face the devil head-on, get fed up with his attacks and lies, and force him out in the name of Jesus. Shannon is definitely under spiritual attack on several fronts, and we need to approach the battle as a spiritual one. I've often found that when you are closest to a breakthrough, the battle will become most intense as the evil one will bring enormous oppression in an attempt to deter our victory. Stand strong.
     
  5. well its weird ..but it is the devil..because from her crying in her room and breakdowns i seen her become evil in her eyes and time laughing when she cries..and different attitudes from night to day and for the first time she is cussing and saying lord name in vain which she has never done before and did not like cussing around her..i also see her dad using her and taking advantage of her is another stress issue and she is spending alot of time with him as well and he cusses every minute and i hear him at times saying dont get back with Robbie and move in with me and even telling lies about me in her head and he doesnt know me, and i hear her tell him robbie would not do that..he hates being alone and tries to take up all her time to..so shes getting it all over and i am being attacked.I gave her scripture and prayers now she throws them in the trash which before she would pray with me and read...not anymore....and i am the only christian in her life but now she wont listen to me or even rarely talk to me...all i do is pray,it is the devil and we need prayers..but thank you for what you said and prayer.
    Robbie
     
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  7. Do you belong to a local church/prayer group, where several of you could get together and fight this thing, do what is necessary in spiritual battle? When it gets to this point, the last thing she is going to want to do is read scripture verses that you hand to her. In her heart, she knows full well she is doing wrong, and her anger/ other emotions are a coping mechanism she has developed...which of course, the devil thrives on, and is taking full advantage of. It is classic rebellion, of which is at the very heart of satan, as that is what he was cast out of Heaven for.

    If you are not well equipped in spiritual warfare, or have never been involved in fighting demonic oppression, I urge you to find folks in your area that can work with you on this.
     
  8. not here in wichita ks most churches do not believe it is the devil and they just say trust the lord....i work 3rd shift so i am up all day..she will not take my prayers now and throws my scripture in the trash..she has changed and even said i am different and not the same person anymore...i can feel it around her and i see it..its a pressure in the air so bad i dont want to be around her and the hate in her eyes and her blank stares.she believes in god but was never in the word like me and i did all the praying when she asked....and she says god cursed me and took my mom away and than she cries and locks her self in her room and if i try to talk to her she gets angry and weird she says i am yelling at her and cursing when i am softly talking about god? so i gave up talking to her and dont say anything anymore to her because i dont want her to get angry ,so i pray in silence...but it has consumed me where i cant eat as i said and my mind will not stay quiet of doom and yes that is satan..but i dont know prayers about the devil or to get him away now church or christians say to me..she has to want to change. i say she cant if its attack from satan and shes gone and empty...or they say she has to hit rock bottom..no, she already has. and daily more problems come up against her..
     

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