Hello Nebubini
I agree with you that there is much to do after we have become saved and that we cannot just chill in our salvation and live however we want without regard. I am, however, not in agreement with you concerning your connection with certain things to our salvation.
Ephesians 2:9 It is by God's free grace we are saved and not by works as well
"For it is by free grace (God's unmerited favor) that you are saved, (delivered from judgement and made partakers of Christ's salvation, through (your) faith. And this (salvation) is not of yourselves (of your own doing, it came not through your own striving) but it is the gift of God.
Not because of works (nor the fulfillment of the law's demands) lest any man should boast. (It is not the result of what anyone can possibly do, so no one can pride himself in it or take glory in himself)"
Also
John 3:16 gives us the requirements for salvation alone
"For God so greatly loved and dearly prized the world, that he (even) gave up His only begotten (unique) son, so that whoever believes in (trusts in, clings to, relies on) Him shall not perish (come to destruction, be lost) but have eternal (everlasting) life."
Both taken from the Amplified translation
One other thing that bothered me is that, i agree that people need to be careful how they dress but you say 'women especially'!
I do believe brother Nebubini, that you are being sexist and offensive to women of which i am one. I have seen many men with shirts off and trousers tight....let's not go any further into that...you get my point.
On the whole i do get your point and i agree but for the important exceptions.