My wife brought me back to the church 2 years ago. I initially went to please her but as soon as our pastor spoke, I knew I was committed for life. Since then I've read the word everyday, prayed, attended church services regularly, attended our men's ministry group, and attended a small marriage group. I'm a work in progress. I'm trying my very hardest. And I'm not who I used to be. My wife has trust and anger issues. It stems from being stood up as a very little girl by her birth father. Her first marriage was also very bad and involved alcoholism, and mental and physical abuse. And she's been in relationships where she was hurt by mistrust. My problem is that while I try to apply biblical principles to everyday life, my wife does not. The devil will whisper in her ear and rather than recognize and resist, she listens. And then it gets into her head and spills out into our lives. She knows it's not right. We're both currently re-reading Joyce Meyer's "Battlefield Of The Mind" so we're very aware of what's happening. I need advice on how to deal with this. Something beyond "pray for her". I'm already doing that constantly. How do I live with a wife that lives biblically selectively? The flesh gets in the way of her living in the spirit. How do I deal with this as the spiritual head of our household?