In a sense, a preacher is called to break the heart, a pastor to mend it.
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People do not like being told what to do.
People are scared to square off with someone with training, education and men to back him up.
I suspect it is also the way some pastors come across or talk to people.
Almost every Church denomination started hospitals and helped people but it becomes costly and has stopped to some degree..
Images of religious buildings being used to treat the sick shouldn't come as surprise. The practice has a long tradition, dating back to the Middle Ages.
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Now unless you are a church member, you are not really a church member in violation of:
I believe if I am a Christian, I'm already a member. You don't join a church. You are born into it.
But if you are treated like you are not a brother because you don't belong to a church, you can see what I mean.
I was visiting a church and my car broke down in the dead of winter in a dangerous area so I walked the rest of the way in the cold and no one helped me after the service because everyone is so fearful of one another.
Who is your neighbor and are you supposed to love them?