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Women who want to be holy, don’t marry men who choose bad women

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I know what I’m saying. There are a whole bunch of men out there who fit exactly into my descriptions. They disgust me and will not get any sympathy from me.
You know from your own experiences, and is your Truth. But unless you know a man’s Spirit, you can only -discern- from a very limited scope. Yet try to apply across the board. You can do this, but it doesn’t make you right, nor fair in your assessment. As you judge from a place of hurt and pain. It’s display quite broadly!

No one should get sympathy. As sympathy comes from a place of self ego stroking.

Empathy on the other hand, come from a Place of that Compassion, that was put on display on that cross. And is what is -Needed- for this world to be healed.

We must face the darkness, if light is to shine upon it and transform it.
There is no other way. As the Savior we claim show us!
 
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You know from your own experiences, and is your Truth. But unless you know a man’s Spirit, you can only -discern- from a very limited scope. Yet try to apply across the board. You can do this, but it doesn’t make you right, nor fair in your assessment. As you judge from a place of hurt and pain. It’s display quite broadly!

No one should get sympathy. As sympathy comes from a place of self ego stroking.

Empathy on the other hand, come from a Place of that Compassion, that was put on display on that cross. And is what is -Needed- for this world to be healed.

We must face the darkness, if light is to shine upon it and transform it.
There is no other way. As the Savior we claim show us!

Are you kidding me? Perpetrators of harm deserve empathy? There wasn’t even any empathy shown towards the victims yet they must dish out empathy!

I am absolutely right. This world including the laughable Christian community has only cruelty towards those who suffered. LMAO

You can stop your useless preaching because I’m not responding to you anymore.
 
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Lol! How do you become a survivor if you go through the same thing over and over? You are forced to be a victim over and over! One becomes a survivor only when the victimisation stops!

I’m done talking. If you’re here to persuade me to marry and open my heart again to anyone, you’re wasting your bloody time. I only devote myself to God now. :)

If…they are willing…

You keep ignoring that I’ve recognized this. You also ignore I said to walk away with your Peace left there with them.

We choose how to Re-Act, to any given situation. Just because someone acts a certain way, does not justify the same action given. Or even becoming a door mat! You simply make excuses for yourself. And applies to any situation. Any person.

I persuade no one to do any thing. I only bring to light what I’m shown. As I was taught too. And neither is it us that opens our heart to anyone.
God does that himself;)

But if you are done talking to me, thank you for your time, and views. I don’t agree, but I appreciate your willingness to open up about such personal situations. They are certainly hard to bare when not healed. Coming out of some and still going through some myself. So I get it more than you give me credit for. Hope you have a great rest of your day
 
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You also ignore I said to walk away with your Peace left there with them.

LMAO, this just shows you don’t understand what I’m saying. I DID WALK AWAY. But the next situation is exactly the same, I’m perpetually walking away from the same situations over and over. Walking away DID NOT stop the continued victimisation.

I’m not opening my heart to anyone except God, period. This world disgusts me in every way possible and I can’t wait for the day to leave. :joy:
 
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Are you kidding me? Perpetrators of harm deserve empathy? There wasn’t even any empathy shown towards the victims yet they must dish out empathy!

I am absolutely right. This world including the laughable Christian community has only cruelty towards those who suffered. LMAO

You can stop your useless preaching because I’m not responding to you anymore.
He is kind to the ungreatful and wicked.

So who are we?

**Forgiven the Father, for they know not what they do….

Do you know better than they?

I’m not preaching. I’m just given you their words. It’s your fight. Not mine. Neither do I want to fight with you, as I have my own. All I did was give the guidelines given me, that I personally use, that heals me, and those about me that so choose.

I choose to be the Light. And the choice remains yours also.
 
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He is kind to the ungreatful and wicked.

So who are we?

**Forgiven the Father, for they know not what they do….

Do you know better than they?

I’m not preaching. I’m just given you their words. It’s your fight. Not mine. Neither do I want to fight with you, as I have my own. All I did was give the guidelines given me, that I personally use, that heals me, and those about me that so choose.

I choose to be the Light. And the choice remains yours also.

And because I rant and rave on an online platform you judge me to be unkind to those who hurt me irl??? It is YOU who need to be careful of how you judge LMAO.

I need an emotional release on here and you people don’t even sympathise with that and go about lecturing me like Job’s friends did. Sadly Job’s friends were the ones who were wrong because they NEVER stood in Job’s shoes, NEVER sympathised with his grieving process and don’t even allow him to have an emotional release for all the pain he is in. :confounded:
 
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He is kind to the ungreatful and wicked.

So who are we?

**Forgiven the Father, for they know not what they do….

Do you know better than they?

I’m not preaching. I’m just given you their words. It’s your fight. Not mine. Neither do I want to fight with you, as I have my own. All I did was give the guidelines given me, that I personally use, that heals me, and those about me that so choose.

I choose to be the Light. And the choice remains yours also.
Job 16 KJV
1Then Job answered:
2“I have heard many things like these;
miserable comforters are you all.
3Is there no end to your long-winded speeches?
What provokes you to continue testifying?
4I could also speak like you
if you were in my place;
I could heap up words against you
and shake my head at you.

So far I’ve only seen lectures on how I need to forgive and have mercy and blah blah blah. You guys are no different from Job’s miserable friends.
 
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And because I rant and rave on an online platform you judge me to be unkind to those who hurt me irl??? It is YOU who need to be careful of how you judge LMAO.

I need an emotional release on here and you people don’t even sympathise with that and go about lecturing me like Job’s friends did. Sadly Job’s friends were the ones who were wrong because they NEVER stood in Job’s shoes, NEVER sympathised with his grieving process and don’t even allow him to have an emotional release for all the pain he is in. :confounded:
You put yourself on display online, and show yourself.

Out of the Heart, the mouth speaks…

The Word itself convicts you. Not me. Neither will I stroke your ego. I’m just getting over a narcissist, so I don’t have sympathy. But I do have empathy, and am being compassionate towards you, giving you direction on how to heal, (from scripture) and you back bite. For I forgive you, because its not your fault. You can’t see past your pain and hurt, so how could I blame you? I’ve been there myself.

Neither can you speak for another human character. Alive or not.
 
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You put yourself on display online, and show yourself.

Out of the Heart, the mouth speaks…

The Word itself convicts you. Not me. Neither will I stroke your ego. I’m just getting over a narcissist, so I don’t have sympathy. But I do have empathy, and am being compassionate towards you, giving you direction on how to heal, (from scripture) and you back bite. For I forgive you, because its not your fault. You can’t see past your pain and hurt, so how could I blame you? I’ve been there myself.

Neither can you speak for another human character. Alive or not.

Are you a man?
 
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In response to the unholy attitude from some “Christian” men who won’t take responsibility for their own bad choices but promote hate mongering against all women, I have the following advice for women out there who do want to be holy and good wives:

Don’t marry any man who has a pattern of choosing bad women as partners.

Reasons are as follows:

1) The only reason these men will actively choose bad women again and again is because they are PLEASURE SEEKERS. What did apostle Paul say about pleasure seekers?

2 Timothy 3 KJV
2For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

Bad women are VERY GOOD at providing pleasure to men, so men who seek after them on a continuous basis are in fact lovers of pleasure, which Paul advised to TURN AWAY from. If we are to turn away from them, we certainly shouldn’t marry them.

If a man is a pleasure seeker on a consistent basis, he will have a hard time remaining loyal to a marriage because there are ALWAYS bad women out there ready to seduce him with pleasures. So you are possibly even facing adultery by marrying such a man.

2) Men who have a pattern of choosing bad women are most likely not willing to take responsibilities for their own bad choices. So they will lash out at innocent women for being hurt by bad women. If you marry them, you are only subjecting yourselves to getting hurt for doing nothing wrong.

3) Men who have a pattern of choosing bad women may not be willing to recognise that they are part of the problem. If you marry them, they will most definitely blame you for everything that goes wrong in your marriage, even if you aren’t the one at fault.

4) Your love for God should surpass all. Don’t let yourselves get bitter by marrying a man who can’t be a good husband and let resentment build in your heart. If you don’t have a godly man in your life, it is better to remain single and devoted to God.

If you do happen to want to marry a man who had a pattern of choosing bad women, MAKE SURE this man actually acknowledges his own responsibilities in his bad choices. MAKE SURE he has worked out his issues and am proactive in improving himself as a person. If all he does is badmouth the women he was with and never reflects on his own shortcomings and sins, RUN FOR THE HILLS.

Ps. I won’t be responding to any hatemongers out there so don’t bother wasting your time on false accusations, personal attacks and whatnots. Lol
Dear Godbehonored,
You meant this for women, which means you should have posted this in the women's forum, and not open forum for all to read and respond to.
I can easily move it to that forum if you'd like, where only women "should" be able to respond to/see. The choice is yours.
Please let me know.

With the Love of Christ Jesus.
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Nick
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Are you a man?

It doesn’t matter. It shouldn’t matter. As both genders go through the same thing. I’ve seen this for myself.

My words should speak for themselves, and not be viewed through a bias lense. We are Human. And suffer the same at the hands of each other.

Women get abused by men ; men by women; Children by Women; Children by Men; Children by Children; Women by Women; Men by Men…..Human….in all it’s flavors, through all its stages.

One is able to walk in another’s shoes by empathy. We do it as parents with our children. With our partners/spouses……When they hurt, we hurt. It’s more than feeling sorry for them. You Feeel it!!! At a Soul level.

And can be extended to the opposite sex, even though we experience life differently. Human is a human. Which is why Jesus is able to speak and convict the heart of both just by speaking.
 
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It doesn’t matter. It shouldn’t matter. As both genders go through the same thing. I’ve seen this for myself.

My words should speak for themselves, and not be viewed through a bias lense. We are Human. And suffer the same at the hands of each other.

Women get abused by men ; men by women; Children by Women; Children by Men; Children by Children; Women by Women; Men by Men…..Human….in all it’s flavors, through all its stages.

One is able to walk in another’s shoes by empathy. We do it as parents with our children. With our partners/spouses……When they hurt, we hurt. It’s more than feeling sorry for them. You Feeel it!!! At a Soul level.

And can be extended to the opposite sex, even though we experience life differently. Human is a human. Which is why Jesus is able to speak and convict the heart of both just by speaking.

I’m asking to figure out if you are trying to make a case for yourself that you don’t fit into the categories of men I described earlier. :joy: Because that makes me see your posts in a entirely different light, and I have some questions even if you are a man.
 
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Dear Godbehonored,
You meant this for women, which means you should have posted this in the women's forum, and not open forum for all to read and respond to.
I can easily move it to that forum if you'd like, where only women "should" be able to respond to/see. The choice is yours.
Please let me know.

With the Love of Christ Jesus.
Moderator
Nick
\o/
<><

Please keep it here. Thanks.
 
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It doesn’t matter. It shouldn’t matter. As both genders go through the same thing. I’ve seen this for myself.

My words should speak for themselves, and not be viewed through a bias lense. We are Human. And suffer the same at the hands of each other.

Women get abused by men ; men by women; Children by Women; Children by Men; Children by Children; Women by Women; Men by Men…..Human….in all it’s flavors, through all its stages.

One is able to walk in another’s shoes by empathy. We do it as parents with our children. With our partners/spouses……When they hurt, we hurt. It’s more than feeling sorry for them. You Feeel it!!! At a Soul level.

And can be extended to the opposite sex, even though we experience life differently. Human is a human. Which is why Jesus is able to speak and convict the heart of both just by speaking.

For that matter I forgot to mention, men disgust me not only because they choose bad women, they even side with them. Those bad women, in an effort to sabotage my relationships will create drama to paint me in a negative light, sowing absolute lies about me so they can steal those men from me and make men dislike me. Before doing that, they use their female charms to win those braindead men over, so these men believe whatever those Jezebels say. So I’m wronged for doing absolutely nothing, and I have no one on my side. LMAO at those braindead men.

Despite all these, I have never used or purposely hurt those braindead men. I did not turn into black widow and take revenge on them. So I’ve done my part in forgiveness while I’m left ALL ALONE dealing with all the pain and bitterness. So I could care less whether men have extenuating factors that cause them to repeat their patterns. They deserve no empathy from me for siding with evil women to hurt me. I’m not the Savior of the world and have no business in healing anyone.

The only thing I do now is to pray to God to end my life quickly so I don’t have to be consumed/destroyed by bitterness. I will never become a black widow or take revenge but neither do I want to stay here for an extra second. So the way out is death. As much as your posts seem to sound right, I am way beyond repair, getting into any relationship will only blow me up and bring back bad memories that men have left behind. I could care less about healing and just want to die in peace and leave this godforsaken world behind. There’s absolutely nothing for me here. :)
 
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Greetings,

forgive me if i am wrong and have missed something but...

why not forget the whole relationship thing and focus on something else?

Jesus was a man, the Son of Man.... best relationship any can have is with Him.

I certainly do not want you to be hurt or hurting.

Move on past the whole mountain of bad relationships. So far, they are all behind you and never to be in again. But we do have the future and that is happening for you now.

Yes, the world is a mess but the Lord calls invitations to His Kingdom, which can be entered and lived in today, while it is still today... enter into His rest


Bless you ....><>
 
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Greetings,

forgive me if i am wrong and have missed something but...

why not forget the whole relationship thing and focus on something else?

Jesus was a man, the Son of Man.... best relationship any can have is with Him.

I certainly do not want you to be hurt or hurting.

Move on past the whole mountain of bad relationships. So far, they are all behind you and never to be in again. But we do have the future and that is happening for you now.

Yes, the world is a mess but the Lord calls invitations to His Kingdom, which can be entered and lived in today, while it is still today... enter into His rest


Bless you ....><>

That’s exactly what I’m doing. I’m never marrying or going into a relationship. But some posters on here seem to want to convince me otherwise that my heart can be opened again. That’s why I ask Luminary is he a man. If he is, it is apparent that he wants women like me to open our hearts so they have a chance. That’s never happening. LOL.

I would not have started a thread like this if there wasn’t a thread elsewhere that promotes hate against women. I’m demonstrating on here just how evil and ludicrous men are as well. They side with bad women, choose bad women whilst they hurt, use and abuse those women who do love them. Why then are women getting all the hate? LMAO
 
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Staff Member
Greetings,

thank you for replying.

yes, it is no fun being hated simply because you are either male or female, man or woman.

Any hate is cancerous, anyway.
Every time it tries to get hold of me i am reminded by the Lord to 'not go there'.

I hear what you are saying.


Bless you ....><>
 
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Greetings,

thank you for replying.

yes, it is no fun being hated simply because you are either male or female, man or woman.

Any hate is cancerous, anyway.
Every time it tries to get hold of me i am reminded by the Lord to 'not go there'.

I hear what you are saying.


Bless you ....><>

It’s not just about hate, it’s about men failing to see their fault in the pathetic state of the relationship world and resorting to a disgusting attitude of finger pointing and blame shifting to women.

If men didn’t reward evil women in the beginning and practise wisdom in choosing partners, none of this would have happened. Evil women can seduce all they want, but if men are all wise and they don’t pay any attention or accept that seduction, evil women will die out like the weed.

Is it hard to practise wisdom in choosing women? Yes, some evil women are so manipulative it’s very hard to see through their masks of niceness. But is it impossible to practise wisdom? No. But men are lazy and faithless, they seek pleasure before wisdom.

Instead of weeding out evil women by working on wisdom and refusing to choose them, men do the opposite. They hurt women who do love them, run after evil women like moths to the flame. Then women who do have love get hurt again and again, and become wounded beyond repair like me. Some like me will then turn into black widows and increase the pool of evil women. It is a no-brainer then why there aren’t healthy and virtuous women left for men. But men only know to blame women when THEY are the ones rewarding evil in the first place. MEN are the ones that figuratively killed virtuous women and sowed the rise of evil women. LMAO
 
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It’s not just about hate, it’s about men failing to see their fault in the pathetic state of the relationship world and resorting to a disgusting attitude of finger pointing and blame shifting to women.

If men didn’t reward evil women in the beginning and practise wisdom in choosing partners, none of this would have happened. Evil women can seduce all they want, but if men are all wise and they don’t pay any attention or accept that seduction, evil women will die out like the weed.

Is it hard to practise wisdom in choosing women? Yes, some evil women are so manipulative it’s very hard to see through their masks of niceness. But is it impossible to practise wisdom? No. But men are lazy and faithless, they seek pleasure before wisdom.

But men do the opposite, they hurt women who do love them, run after evil women like moths to the flame. Then women who do have love get hurt again and again, and become wounded beyond repair like me. Some like me will then turn into black widows and increase the pool of evil women. It is a no-brainer then why there aren’t healthy and virtuous women left for men. But men only know to blame women when THEY are the ones rewarding evil in the first place. MEN are the ones that figuratively killed virtuous women and sowed the rise of evil women. LMAO
Not all men hurt women there are plenty of good guys out there who love their girlfriend/spouse/wife to death and would never treat them badly
 
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Not all men hurt women there are plenty of good guys out there who love their girlfriend/spouse/wife to death and would never treat them badly

They are a minority and close to extinction, if not already extinct. By extinct I mean they are on longer on the dating market. Lol
 
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