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Married spiritually but not legally

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OK, What does the Bible say ? About Marriage ? About sex outside of Marriage. To be Married legally you need to 1. Make a Vow before God 2.In this country obtain a marriage license.. Then your spouse can wave that PAPER in someones face and say see I'm married. Could be a judge could be the IRS could be anyone that needs proof you are married. Hippy beads don't get it. " Marriage is honorable in all"....alas but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. He that commits fornication sins against his own body. It's in the Bible . God is Holy, Be ye Holy sort of thing. He says No, The World says it's o.k. ergo that's why the way is narrow my friends.
 
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My wife and I were married with a justice of the peace and two friends as witnesses. Simple but effective.
Yes same here with my brother afterwards we all went fishing
It’s not about champagne and glitter there will be plenty of time to do that when you have the resources
Shalom
 
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We do not want to get married through the court, we really want to wait until we have enough cash to have a wedding, but we love each other more than anything in this world and would like to be married spiritually. We have asked god to accept our marriage into his heart. I am still getting to know Jesus, so I do not want to ruin anything..
You have real love, it is no business of anyone else's.
Our Lord God is loving and good.
I wish you well, be peaceful and happy together. If and when the time is right, you can have the wedding you truly want.
 
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No one has to have a lot of money to get married. God instituted marriage. So, by all means get married God's way. With some friends with you to celebrate your new life together.
 
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We do not want to get married through the court, we really want to wait until we have enough cash to have a wedding, but we love each other more than anything in this world and would like to be married spiritually. We have asked god to accept our marriage into his heart. I am still getting to know Jesus, so I do not want to ruin anything..
Hubby and I put our wants last n YH first what u bind below u bind above and vice versa
And it is written If you Love me you will obey me and it is written you say I am your master but where is your fear you say I am your Father where is my respect
Not downing anyone but to say I don't want to is defying what YH has written n makes one a hypocrite we can't b of the world n claim to b walking in Spirit
Even Satan knew the word He just didn't follow the word
If it's your want for the worldly ways that r stopping you from doing what is right in YHs eyes then one needs to reflect on themselves n their relationship with YH

Good luck on your walk n may you find the answers you looking for
 
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We do not want to get married through the court, we really want to wait until we have enough cash to have a wedding, but we love each other more than anything in this world and would like to be married spiritually. We have asked god to accept our marriage into his heart. I am still getting to know Jesus, so I do not want to ruin anything..
There are a couple issues that take place when you follow this route . 1 ) in the Word ( scripture ) it is clear , God wants us to experience marriage with witnesses and in celebration. 2) we are both physical and spiritual beings , being " married in the spiritual is not also the physical. As scripture states , the two become one flesh. 3) what you are proposing never works, as not having the physical contract gives room to walk away later.
 
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The Religious world never ceases to amaze me!
I wonder, where did The Terminology or a doctrine if it is one;
“Marriage Spiritually”
Please define and The Source of. the definition. I never or recall such a ceremony within the pages of “The BOOK”!

And please do not insult my intelligence, with an “Adam & Eve” scenario!

For Adam and Eve, was Flesh! For The Spiritual “Adam” had not arrive yet!

45So also it is written: “The first MAN, Adam, BECAME A LIVING [r]PERSON.” The last Adam was a life-givingspirit. 46However, the spiritual is not first, but the natural; then the spiritual. 47The first man is from the earth, https://biblehub.com/nasb_/1_corinthians/15.htm#fnearthy; the secondman is from heaven. 48As is the earthy one, so also are those who are earthy; and as is the heavenlyone, so also are those who are heavenly. 49Just as we have bornethe image of the earthy, [t]we will also bear the image of the heavenly.
 
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You see many Christian’s think it is about breaking the rules! Concerning Cohabitation it is a lot more going on in this Capacity that meets or unknown to the eye.

Like where did your soul come from? And please once again do not insult my Intelligence, and say, from GOD.

“We all know that”

Like; where does the wind come from?
The answer: “From GOD”

Where does the water and the dirt comes from?

The answer: “From GOD”

I do hope you understand my drift.

Summary:

There is No such Thing as A “Spiritual Marriage” of “Marriage Spiritually”

That ain’t nothing but a lie, A deception-able seed coming from The Pouch of Lucifer and Fertilise by The Flesh, and watered Down by The Mouth!:confused:

The more that mouth waters the taller The Bush will grow and before you know it, you got a whole roll hedges with no way out!

And they wonder, why “Mental Illness” is on arise!:worried:

They are trap and cannot get out!

Do anyone need a Interpreter, to understand that “Biblical TRUTH”?
 
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I think what most see in being married Spiritually is that some had sex before marriage, then found out that it is not ok to have sex before marriage, so they use this as an excuse, some then went on to get married. The scripture some use for this is(1 Cor 6:15-16!!) verse 16!! After I became a believer I thought it was still ok to have relations with a woman until a brother in the Lord showed me this scripture, I then stopped!! I did not use this scripture for my misdeeds, I said but the Lord said to love everyone, I am just doing this. LOL What a Dum Dum I was before Jesus!! LOL
 
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I think what most see in being married Spiritually is that some had sex before marriage, then found out that it is not ok to have sex before marriage, so they use this as an excuse, some then went on to get married. The scripture some use for this is(1 Cor 6:15-16!!) verse 16!! After I became a believer I thought it was still ok to have relations with a woman until a brother in the Lord showed me this scripture, I then stopped!! I did not use this scripture for my misdeeds, I said but the Lord said to love everyone, I am just doing this. LOL What a Dum Dum I was before Jesus!! LOL
But there is Absolutely nothing “HOLY” about it to be “Biblically Sound”.

Spiritual, maybe, but, what spiritual force is in The Drivers Seat?

For The Bible describes it, as “The Works of The Flesh”, then May we say, “Tempted by Who?

Now I can see it clearly and plainly that the world and Nominals Christian’s can see something as if it is “Spiritual and approved by GOD’s correct-ness” of being sensual.
 
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OK, What does the Bible say ? About Marriage ? About sex outside of Marriage. To be Married legally you need to 1. Make a Vow before God 2.In this country obtain a marriage license.. Then your spouse can wave that PAPER in someones face and say see I'm married. Could be a judge could be the IRS could be anyone that needs proof you are married. Hippy beads don't get it. " Marriage is honorable in all"....alas but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. He that commits fornication sins against his own body. It's in the Bible . God is Holy, Be ye Holy sort of thing. He says No, The World says it's o.k. ergo that's why the way is narrow my friends.
No such thing. Joining FLESH (having sex) IS MARRIAGE. The Vow is meaningless, and the "License" is only a legal document outlining rights, property, and conditions for dissolution.. Just ask Jacob - wound ip MARRIED to the wrong gal, because he consummated his marriage with her - without even knowing (at the time) who she was (SURPRISE!!!!!). Score one for Laban.

A significant number of couples who have WEDDINGS in the U.S. have been married already - may even have kids, and given our U.S. morality are probably in multiple adulteries when they "take their vows".
 
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No such thing. Joining FLESH (having sex) IS MARRIAGE. The Vow is meaningless, and the "License" is only a legal document outlining rights, property, and conditions for dissolution.. Just ask Jacob - wound ip MARRIED to the wrong gal, because he consummated his marriage with her - without even knowing (at the time) who she was (SURPRISE!!!!!). Score one for Laban.

A significant number of couples who have WEDDINGS in the U.S. have been married already - may even have kids, and given our U.S. morality are probably in multiple adulteries when they "take their vows".
Basically the same conclusion I came to.

In my case the sex was around age 6 or 7 and was consentual by part of my mind but not another. And she told me she would return to me again, and i believed it, so my mind created me, with no memory of the past. From age 8 to 24 I was afraid of women and had no relationship with them. And that woman did come back to find me when I was 24, God had healed my subconscious fear of women just a couple months before we met.(but perhaps it wasn't God and was actually my own mind). We had a short relationship and I did not touch her if you know what I mean.... Probably would have if I hadnt scared her away.
 
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God's Word still stands. Sex outside of marriage is fornication. Some kind of ceremony is still necessary as well as a license. And yes, there are lots of remarriages - life happens. And God's Word still stands.
 
Loyal
Basically the same conclusion I came to.

In my case the sex was around age 6 or 7 and was consentual by part of my mind but not another. And she told me she would return to me again, and i believed it, so my mind created me, with no memory of the past. From age 8 to 24 I was afraid of women and had no relationship with them. And that woman did come back to find me when I was 24, God had healed my subconscious fear of women just a couple months before we met.(but perhaps it wasn't God and was actually my own mind). We had a short relationship and I did not touch her if you know what I mean.... Probably would have if I hadnt scared her away.

In your case -- you were a child and you experienced being molested and raped. And of course you would have been scared of women. That woman should have been in prison.

She needed to be scared away. Sounds like she's a predator and is dangerous. Stay away from her.
 
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God's Word still stands. Sex outside of marriage is fornication. Some kind of ceremony is still necessary as well as a license. And yes, there are lots of remarriages - life happens. And God's Word still stands.
Sex (the joining of flesh) outside of marriage is impossible, since it IS the marriage.

What IS possible (and common), of course, is failure to remain monogamous with the one you're married to.

"Licences" are nothing but "civil contracts" and unrelated to actual marriage, only to the "LEGALLY BINDING CONTRACT".

"Ceremonies" are largely meaningless, except that Legally they're required for the Civil contract to be valid (gotta be witnesses).

The existence of the Marriage status only requires the joining of flesh.
 
Loyal
Any two people can join flesh sexually out of passion. It can be rape, incest an affair. But that does Not make a marriage. So a marriage is a combination of the ceremony, the marriage license and consummating the union.
 
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Some kind of ceremony is still necessary as well as a license.
A license is not needed. (Just ask Lee Marvin, although he's dead.)

The truth is, from a legal perspective a "marriage license" is a THREE party contract with the state as the third party, which gives permission to a judge to settle (preside over) a divorce by court hearing without requiring a 12 person jury. In truth, then, it's literally a Divorce Liscense, and No marriage is holy with three parties to the contract.

Rhema
 
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A marriage license is indeed needed in every state to show that the two people can indeed get married legally. I just looked it up.
 
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