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catholina

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umm I was born in a female body but now I identify as a boy.
is that wrong?
I finally feel comfortable
 
Hi Catholina,

I'm going to hold my hands up and admit to you, I really don't understand. I was born as a guy and I'm happy with that, I wouldn't want to change that. We're I to have been born a girl, I'm sure I'd be just fine with that. That's why I say, I can't see the dilemma of someone wishing that they were of the opposite sex. That doesn't mean to say that there isn't a problem, I'm sure in your formative years there was a lot of anguish going on before you took the decision to make the change.

I've got much bigger questions with a much more important outcome: do you know and love God? Do you accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your personal, very own saviour? If the answer to both of those questions is yes, then that will be because God called you and you responded. He called you knowing you had gender identity issues, He's unconcerned with that, God loves you dearly, He wants you to get to know Him. He wants your love and adoration so badly He was prepared to surrender His only son to die a horrific death to prevent you from being lost forever.

So does God want you to become fem again? Well that's something you're going to have to work out with Him but given what He's done for and what He's given you, would that be too big an ask? Like I say, that's something you're going to have to work out with God. So sorry to duck the question but this is between you and God.

I would like to reassure you that if you've sincerely answered yes to the above two questions, your transition will not affect your passage to Heaven. Your place in Heaven is not affected by what we do or don't do. But that said if in your heart of hearts you deep down believe that God wants you to be fem and you ignore Him, you will not ever experience a Spirit filled and amazing close relationship with God. God does like obedience and hates rebellion and if we love Him, we want to please Him.

Hope that gives you some food for thought.

Lots of love,


Andy
 
So what is it about "identifying" as a boy makes you comfortable??
I like the feeling of having a flat chest. I like being referred to as a man. I cringe when people call me by my real name instead of my chosen name and use she/her pronouns
 
I like the feeling of having a flat chest. I like being referred to as a man. I cringe when people call me by my real name instead of my chosen name and use she/her pronouns
Why do you prefer those masculine attributes?
Why do you have difficulty with your true biology?
 
Why do you prefer those masculine attributes?
Why do you have difficulty with your true biology?
I don’t like having periods or breasts. Not because their uncomfortable. Because it just shoves the fact that I’m a girl into my face. It’s hard to explain but I feel like I’m not a girl. I’m a guy trapped in a girls body.
 
Let us say this hypothetically only for a moment,

Let us say we all were born sinners and what does a sinner do and what is a sinners desire and what does a sinners loves to do and get satisfaction out of? What does his flesh crave.

The answer would be “Sin”. A sinner cannot help it their nature is to sin. It is sweet and comfortable to them but the end.

Then Jesus came and He was. A Light that shone into the darkness and pointed our sins out, He came to delivery us from the bondage of our desires that light became painful but He could heal. And correct that which fell in The Garden of Eden. A power that no church or man could do. But this Jesus is able to do the miraculous.
Now would not that be interesting. And bring clarity to any one’s dilemma.

He could fix that which was broken and repair that needed to be repaired. And make that which was and
Make something that was old brand new.

now would not that be good news.
 
Let us say this hypothetically only for a moment,

Let us say we all were born sinners and what does a sinner do and what is a sinners desire and what does a sinners loves to do and get satisfaction out of? What does his flesh crave.

The answer would be “Sin”. A sinner cannot help it their nature is to sin. It is sweet and comfortable to them but the end.

Then Jesus came and He was. A Light that shone into the darkness and pointed our sins out, He came to delivery us from the bondage of our desires that light became painful but He could heal. And correct that which fell in The Garden of Eden. A power that no church or man could do. But this Jesus is able to do the miraculous.
Now would not that be interesting. And bring clarity to any one’s dilemma.

He could fix that which was broken and repair that needed to be repaired. And make that which was and
Make something that was old brand new.

now would not that be good news.
Yes? are you saying I am broken tho? Just because I’m different?
Honest question
 
Hi Catholina,

I'm going to hold my hands up and admit to you, I really don't understand. I was born as a guy and I'm happy with that, I wouldn't want to change that. We're I to have been born a girl, I'm sure I'd be just fine with that. That's why I say, I can't see the dilemma of someone wishing that they were of the opposite sex. That doesn't mean to say that there isn't a problem, I'm sure in your formative years there was a lot of anguish going on before you took the decision to make the change.

I've got much bigger questions with a much more important outcome: do you know and love God? Do you accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your personal, very own saviour? If the answer to both of those questions is yes, then that will be because God called you and you responded. He called you knowing you had gender identity issues, He's unconcerned with that, God loves you dearly, He wants you to get to know Him. He wants your love and adoration so badly He was prepared to surrender His only son to die a horrific death to prevent you from being lost forever.

So does God want you to become fem again? Well that's something you're going to have to work out with Him but given what He's done for and what He's given you, would that be too big an ask? Like I say, that's something you're going to have to work out with God. So sorry to duck the question but this is between you and God.

I would like to reassure you that if you've sincerely answered yes to the above two questions, your transition will not affect your passage to Heaven. Your place in Heaven is not affected by what we do or don't do. But that said if in your heart of hearts you deep down believe that God wants you to be fem and you ignore Him, you will not ever experience a Spirit filled and amazing close relationship with God. God does like obedience and hates rebellion and if we love Him, we want to please Him.

Hope that gives you some food for thought.

Lots of love,


Andy
Thank you. I appreciate how you weren’t discriminating towards me for me gender identity and sexuality. you were very kind about that thank you
 
Gender dysphoria a mental health condition that is well documented in psychology.
 
Yes? are you saying I am broken tho? Just because I’m different?
Honest question
According to Bible we all are broken every last one of us. And no one deserved salvation. And Jesus the Son of The Living GOD did not come into this world to make it better and make us us happy and have a wonderful life. HE died a violent death and the world hated Him and wanted Him dead. He did not come to fix this world but to save us from it.

you can be anything you want to be. And why care if another do not like the color of your hair or the shape of your toes. If you worried and concern what people think of you. Maybe take history lessons concerning from Genesis to Revelation and you will not be disappointed and you would consider yourself bless.
 
All humans born on planet earth are born "defective" in how they should be and believe which is why we need a savior to reset (create) ourselves back into the person God made us to be.
 
All humans born on planet earth are born "defective" in how they should be and believe which is why we need a savior to reset (create) ourselves back into the person God made us to be.
Does that mean I should break up with my gf?
 
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