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It seems everyone is offended by something or someone these days. I suppose I am as guilty of this as anyone.
It seems to me, that sometimes we look for reasons to be upset. Bare with me for a minute. Example:...
Someone says something that my friend doesn't like. It wasn't really even personally against my friend. But someone didn't like the car he drove, or who he voted for, or the school he went to,
or the church he goes to, ... or it could be anything really. .. and so my friend gets upset. Well, OK.. I guess sometimes that's OK. But then later he calls me and tells me his story, and I get upset.
(Like I need another reason to be upset) This story had nothing to do with me, nobody insulted me, nobody offended me, but now I am upset. Why?
I'm not saying we can't stick up for our friends if someone wrongly accuses them of something or someone attacks their character. But do we really need to get upset just because
someone insulted the school he used to go to? (Well, he IS my friend after all!) Sticks and stones. Maybe we get offended way too easily. Maybe sometimes we look for reasons to be offended.
Many Christians watch "reality TV" just so we can take a side and be offended about something. Something that usually doesn't matter much in God's priorities.
Someone doesn't like the band you like, someone doesn't like the sports team you like, someone doesn't like the way you worship.... who cares? Does God like it, then that's enough for me.
It seems to me, we have enough problems of our own in this world, do we really need to go out and find reasons to have more anxiety, anger, offense, or disputes?
I think sometimes, we want someone to "take our side" in the argument or debate at hand. There are times we should do this, but if it's simply because someone got offended or
someone's feelings got hurt, should we jump in and become part of the problem ourselves? Maybe we all need to chill, step back and take a breath. Maybe stopping to pray before
we swing that next axe or throw that next rock. Maybe we need to take a look at the log in own eye, before taking offense at the splinter in someone else's eye?
Even if the attack isn't against us, and it's someone we know, maybe we shouldn't always take offense at something not directed at us.
It seems to me, that sometimes we look for reasons to be upset. Bare with me for a minute. Example:...
Someone says something that my friend doesn't like. It wasn't really even personally against my friend. But someone didn't like the car he drove, or who he voted for, or the school he went to,
or the church he goes to, ... or it could be anything really. .. and so my friend gets upset. Well, OK.. I guess sometimes that's OK. But then later he calls me and tells me his story, and I get upset.
(Like I need another reason to be upset) This story had nothing to do with me, nobody insulted me, nobody offended me, but now I am upset. Why?
I'm not saying we can't stick up for our friends if someone wrongly accuses them of something or someone attacks their character. But do we really need to get upset just because
someone insulted the school he used to go to? (Well, he IS my friend after all!) Sticks and stones. Maybe we get offended way too easily. Maybe sometimes we look for reasons to be offended.
Many Christians watch "reality TV" just so we can take a side and be offended about something. Something that usually doesn't matter much in God's priorities.
Someone doesn't like the band you like, someone doesn't like the sports team you like, someone doesn't like the way you worship.... who cares? Does God like it, then that's enough for me.
It seems to me, we have enough problems of our own in this world, do we really need to go out and find reasons to have more anxiety, anger, offense, or disputes?
I think sometimes, we want someone to "take our side" in the argument or debate at hand. There are times we should do this, but if it's simply because someone got offended or
someone's feelings got hurt, should we jump in and become part of the problem ourselves? Maybe we all need to chill, step back and take a breath. Maybe stopping to pray before
we swing that next axe or throw that next rock. Maybe we need to take a look at the log in own eye, before taking offense at the splinter in someone else's eye?
Even if the attack isn't against us, and it's someone we know, maybe we shouldn't always take offense at something not directed at us.