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Welcome indeed goldbaby777 I noticed you are angry,I also noticed that rom 8 is a very important part of you! How we are to live is I believe your point! Perhaps angry why so many are not doing this??

I am sure the Lord is not happy either! What we as believers are, is as strong as we can be, as we continue to follow Jesus( Him also being the Word of God)Indeed we sure can point to enough so called believers, who speak much,but do nothing!

That is the difference between what a Christian and a believer is to me.A Christian ( not spoken of till the book of Acts)measures there faith by another,a believer measures his or her own faith by the Word of God,and then looks to go out and encourage others to do the very same.

Jesus did not come to judge the world, he came to save it.We his followers represent him,so therefore we also do not judge,except in the Church.(1Peter4:17-19)Outside of this we are to show others as Jesus did how he wants us to live.( (John 12:46-50) I present the Word unto you,so you will know that I am speaking from the same light you yourself wish to remain in.

The problem with sin, is that it can cause us as believers to begin to hate not only the sin,but the person who is committing it.When this happens we lose, not the person!Of the many things that make the devil so evil,is the fact he loves to mix judgment with not only the sin, but also the person! Thereby robbing two people!! ( john 10:10)The person who is sinning, and those who judge the sinner rather then just the sin they commit.

Just a thought for you my brother in Christ!! Again welcome to the site that does not only speak love,but shows love, one to another!! Blessing always to you,and thanks so much for becoming a new found part to our Body of Christ here!
 
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vengeance

Can someone avenge me of my enemy who is a piece of garbage causing suicide instead of salvation to steal my wife and murder me like how my wife's dad killed himself....... does that anger you? can you imagine being me? help me fight against it and them if you will.....
 
My brother,if you are willing to listen, then I am ready to help you. The horror of men and women all have,is something no one other then that person can understand,oh, they may look to,but unless I am the one in the shoes of one who has endured so much,how then can I help?

Please let me give you an example of another horror in ones life,and how this horror was made to go away,like a thief into the night. I served 2 Tours in Vietnam,I was unsaved at the time,like you, I had much anger! And like you with very good reason! I was one week away from joining the Detroit Tiger Baseball team,as I got invited to try out for them.

When I got drafted,I asked and begged them to let me be,so I could do something I worked so very hard to do! The answer was not even I am sorry,the answer was NO! So I went. The hatred and anger grew to such levels,not even a child was safe with me! I know what it is to take a life,when I had no reason to do so. There was no commandment from God I did not break.

There was no thought either. I was my ruler,and those who with me stayed far away from me.Then on a very stormy day 2 years after I got out of the service,not being able to hold any job for very long, because of the way they had made me,not being able to stay at home, because I was so evil,and so lost,Jesus found me in a mop closet in college in Williamsburg Kentucky.

And then like you I was ready to listen. Rom 12:9-21!! Please do read this. Of course the story is much longer then I will write here,but i know you see the point.I had to decide something my brother! Was I going to remain as I was,angry,full of hate,lover of only self? Or was I going to follow?( matt 16:24)

I had to learn how to first,this took many years!!I made a great deal of mistakes along the way as well. I had so much to learn,and still do! But the core of our Jesus is to love,we do this,because we have so great a need of this ourselves!We also have to learn how to as well.

It is not a wide road anymore we can travel on. For in a wide road, much can come against us from so many different angles. To speak this to you, is one thing,but to do it, is quite another!!I know this so well also! By hating those we have every reason to hate,we only hurt ourself.

I truly believe that the reason we also hate,is because of who we now believe we are as well.So why wouldn't we hate? Forgiveness comes to us,when we wish it to, for us first. For we my brother cannot give it, if we do not first have it to give.( matt 18:21-35) Each lesson we are willing to learn,we gain more and more help from our own needs, and desires.

For me Jesus was,and is the only way,he is my only truth,and I have given him my very life.Because he first gave me his!( john 15:11-17) Therfore since my Lord commands us to love,I must love,even those who do not deserve it!! WHY?? because Jesus first loved me! ( 1 John 4:19) You have not come here to be judged,you have come here seeking real truth!

This through Jesus in me I can give you.Holy Spirit must do the rest,but I will tell you this,he is more then able to do it!IF!!! You are willing to learn!As I myself was.And still am!We have so many wonderful brothers and sisters here among us,all have gone through great hardship,all have a story of great woe as well. But the question for you this day is,whether you wish to keep the hate,and stay so sad,or be willing to learn,even as we all do here.

No one has total truth my brother,no one has total answers,except one! Since we all know this to be true,this is why we not only seek our Lord Jesus,but follow him as best we can as well! We love you brother!Jesus has always loved you! Will you let him? We do have to allow this!

We can always stay as we are,we have that right. 3 ideas for you to consider after you decide on whether or not you wish to follow. 1. repent.2. receive Jesus as your Savior. and 3. find a good Bible Based Church where you can help others,grow,even as you wish to grow!

This is only a start,but this will get you into the race with the rest of us!( 1 Cor 9:23-27) I show you scripture because I never was a man who trusted anyone,I had to see for myself! I believe you to be this way as well

.For I know you have very good reason! Consider this.I am not telling you at all what to do!! You must decide.But I would be a sorry servant, if I did not care for you!I care because Jesus cared for me!!AND!!! He cares for you to!( John 15:16) You are chosen only if you are willing to become chosen. Blessing to you my brother.
 
Can someone avenge me of my enemy who is a piece of garbage causing suicide instead of salvation to steal my wife and murder me like how my wife's dad killed himself....... does that anger you? can you imagine being me? help me fight against it and them if you will.....

First off, welcome to the forum goldbaby777, glad to have you here with us!

Now about your anger issue, like has been said, none of us knows what it is like to walk in another's shoes. But what I do know is that anger and hatred will destroy everyone who gives it space to grow, which it certainly will.

I am sure you have noticed that these (fleshly) emotions never self-correct themselves and get better, lighten up, go away on their own, etc. without a concerted effort and desire on the person's part to change and let it go. The more fire we let in to our bosom, the hotter and higher it burns. The flesh never gets enough!

We are not equipped to handle such emotions on our own strength, that's why you need to give it to the Almighty God who can handle your burdens for you!

You asked us to "help you fight against it and them if you will" - what can we do for you that God can't do exceedingly more for you? Have you asked God to help you??? He is the avenger of blood, the consuming fire that said vengeance is HIS. Read Psalm 18 and claim it for yourself. God does not sit idly by when we are hurt and oppressed by the enemy. He goes to war against him and protects us with a fiercely jealous love!

Take your concerns, anger, hatred - everything - to Him and let Him deal with it all. And deal with it He will, if you repent of your sins, submit to Him and allow Him to do things His way, not yours.

And at the same time when you submit to Him He will heal your troubled heart and give you rest. Do you trust Him to be able to do this?

I know it isn't what you want to hear, but it is nonetheless the truth. All the evils that you are trying to fight against were caused by the same enemy that now wants you to fight him with the very anger and hatred you feel because of what he did!

Let us always strive to live in the love of Christ, not because it is always easy or pleases us to do it, but because He commands us to and it pleases Him when we do.

My heart goes out to you, and my prayers for you! God bless!
 
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welcome Goldbaby and blessings to you in Jesus Name ...

id be a liar if i told you i knew how you felt..BUT GOD DOES
id be a liar if i told you i knew all the right answers ..BUT GOD DOES
ive lost many loved ones to suiscide and fought the beast myself once or twice .
no one has the ability to read the mind of the hurting ..BUT GOD DOES
only He knows the heart ..all i can say is focus on Christ and let God handle the rest.
anger will become an overwelming cancer if untreated..and will make you just as dead.
youre shoulderes were not made big enough to carry this burden .BUT GODS ARE.
cast youre cares on Him For He cares for You and Know that we are here if we can help in any way ..JUST ask ..Just like Christ ..JUST ASK ..Jer 33:3 call on me ,and I will
show you great and mighty things you know not of ...PROMISE !/ Dont lean to youre
own reason because you will never fiqure it out.but you can chase youre tail all day long over it if you like ..Trust in the Lord and Know that He alone has the peace youre looking for ..But we are here for you also according to His will for you or you woulndt have came here with such pain ,,,God loves you and has not given up on you so dont you give up either ..MAY God show you His imense love For you and may comfort be youres In Jesus Name..Rev
 
holy geesh does the angels worry me sometimes

I had a bad dream sleeping then woke up to a happy morning at 11:00am I just want you to know that when you dream of slim shady stealing your musical name it is angering and sickening and dreaming of God selling it to him there is that there is some form of hope but it the understandings of those things are to dark and sickening for me
 
what I mean to say....

I have travelled 15 years in a hell and lost alot of understanding that God actually cares for me the dream I had is hopefully a lie when i was sleeping but the most point is things to do with a happy ending for me....... I can never know if God loves me because of an enemy somewhere near or far
 
I have travelled 15 years in a hell and lost alot of understanding that God actually cares for me the dream I had is hopefully a lie when i was sleeping but the most point is things to do with a happy ending for me....... I can never know if God loves me because of an enemy somewhere near or far

The enemy will always persecute and attack true believers brother, because his main objective is to foil God's plan, and get you distracted to think on him. Focus on Jesus because he said he will never leave nor forsake you.
 
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