I am not in a relationship with my neighbor's girlfriend. Rather, she wants one with me.. but only when she gets drunk or high enough (doesn't seem like drugs to me) that some other part of her mind takes over and she runs away from him.
First time this happened was 6 weeks ago at 1030pm on a Saturday night, I had her call a cab and leave. I told her to have some respect for herself and make better choices.. I also told her my neighbor doesn't have any money.. (basically true.) she seemed to really appreciate being able to talk to me for 20 minutes, I tell her that my wife and i bought this house 2 years and i don't want problems with my neighbor, etc, etc, and no, you can't live with me. She wasn't making much sense with her side of the story. -i'll get to that later.
My wife came outside after she left in the cab and said to me "i saw that woman in a dream a year ago".
About 2 or 3 weeks later the neighbor introduces her to me as his girlfriend and she seems to be a rational human adult as if nothing is wrong. (i was over at his house to talk about borrowing his ditch witch)
Second time was 330 pm a week ago. About 5 minutes before she walked into my house I felt God tell me something, which wasn't in English, it was more like, a concept of how close you can get to a person before you start getting into normal human limits for intimacy. At the time what came to my mind didn't make any sense, but does now.
She knocks on my door and I'm thinking to myself, I could pretend to not be home.
About 30 seconds later she opens the door and walks in and at that point i confront her and talk to her for about 5 minutes outside. She was in the same confused mental state as in 5 weeks prior, and her story was pretty similar, similarly self contradictory, which re-enforces my mental concept of whats going on:
Part of her mind thinks she is paying my neighbor to live in his house, and is not consenting to a relationship with him, while the more adult part of her mind understands he is paying her to be his long term girlfriend. And its this child like part of her mind that is not consenting to live with him.. thinks she should live with me instead.
The problem is: I tend to think God isn't just ok with that, but put the idea in her head in the first place 6 weeks ago.
its been a week nothing has happened since then but i have a feeling she is going to show up again.
So anyhow, i call my mom.. and instead of expressing shock and confusion, she asks me if my wife is ok with my neighbors girlfriend deciding to live with me. I'm like.. what!? -my mom then doubles down and suggests i could use a live in house cleaner.
I called my mom's sister after that phone call to get a rational person to talk to lol.. my moms sister (not a christian) had a much more christian apologetic, compassionate response about how i should try to get the woman help.
First time this happened was 6 weeks ago at 1030pm on a Saturday night, I had her call a cab and leave. I told her to have some respect for herself and make better choices.. I also told her my neighbor doesn't have any money.. (basically true.) she seemed to really appreciate being able to talk to me for 20 minutes, I tell her that my wife and i bought this house 2 years and i don't want problems with my neighbor, etc, etc, and no, you can't live with me. She wasn't making much sense with her side of the story. -i'll get to that later.
My wife came outside after she left in the cab and said to me "i saw that woman in a dream a year ago".
About 2 or 3 weeks later the neighbor introduces her to me as his girlfriend and she seems to be a rational human adult as if nothing is wrong. (i was over at his house to talk about borrowing his ditch witch)
Second time was 330 pm a week ago. About 5 minutes before she walked into my house I felt God tell me something, which wasn't in English, it was more like, a concept of how close you can get to a person before you start getting into normal human limits for intimacy. At the time what came to my mind didn't make any sense, but does now.
She knocks on my door and I'm thinking to myself, I could pretend to not be home.
About 30 seconds later she opens the door and walks in and at that point i confront her and talk to her for about 5 minutes outside. She was in the same confused mental state as in 5 weeks prior, and her story was pretty similar, similarly self contradictory, which re-enforces my mental concept of whats going on:
Part of her mind thinks she is paying my neighbor to live in his house, and is not consenting to a relationship with him, while the more adult part of her mind understands he is paying her to be his long term girlfriend. And its this child like part of her mind that is not consenting to live with him.. thinks she should live with me instead.
The problem is: I tend to think God isn't just ok with that, but put the idea in her head in the first place 6 weeks ago.
its been a week nothing has happened since then but i have a feeling she is going to show up again.
So anyhow, i call my mom.. and instead of expressing shock and confusion, she asks me if my wife is ok with my neighbors girlfriend deciding to live with me. I'm like.. what!? -my mom then doubles down and suggests i could use a live in house cleaner.
I called my mom's sister after that phone call to get a rational person to talk to lol.. my moms sister (not a christian) had a much more christian apologetic, compassionate response about how i should try to get the woman help.
