Here is a question posed to me that I though we all could put our heads together on and come up with an answer. I know, it hurts, you are sad, you miss the loved one. I miss my sister who died a year ago. I wish I had more time to spend with her. So WHY does it hurt so bad when you know that the person served God all his life, loved Jesus, was saved? Why does it hurt? Are we programed to pitch a fit, to cry and carry on? Is it really glorifying God when we act like this is the worst thing that could possibly happen? On the other hand, if we smiled and laughed, someone would be sure to say that you were in denial.