Do you believe in saving your first kiss until you are married? I do. Partly beacuse I think if you kiss every date you have, kissing does not seem exiting anymore and it feels like the same old, same old. Does anybody else think the same thing? If you want, I can pm you the name of a Christian book over the subject.
Love,
your sis in Christ, Julie.

well...i really do thínk that this question is very intresting!!!
hmm...i never really thought about it...but yeah I agree...if u kiss every date then it wont be anything exciting anymore....but it also depends on how many dates you have!!anyways...i think i wont or lets say wouldnt wait till i marry...cause the person you marry you usally love so you could have your first kiss with him/her!!!i guess what im trying to say is...i would only kiss someone i really love...


god bless
kara

That's a good concept, but I am not sure. What if it doesn't work out at the end? I guess it does matter about how maany dates you are on and especially WHO you are dating.

I would have to say that if you wait until you are getting married to kiss that then you know the person is right for you, if they wait with you too. I really do wish that I would have waited but I guess thats to late now.

I think waiting until the day you get married is a good idea. I know some people who would go pretty far with that kind of thing like hands-off courtships. I probably wouldn't go that far probably in the other direction...does throwing myself in his arms when he says the famous words*I love you* sound irrational? Well maybe I'm just in a wierd mood tonight but yes I think I'll save my first kiss til my wedding day!

mmm, this question seems a little bit, well unrealistic... I am sure I will not kiss all my dates, but I will probably kiss my boyfriend and maybe it wouldnt work with him... or whatever but I dont think I will wait till my wedding day to have my first kiss.
But you know what they say, one thing leads to another so, you will have to draw the lines some where.

Well, I'd have to slightly disagree. I think that a couple can kiss, just as long as they don't "deep" kiss, I guess the polite term would be. I agree with saving sex for marriage because its something very special, but without a kidd with a date, how would things even spark, ya know? I think its fine, as long as you are strict in where to draw the line between kissing and kissing if you get what I mean.

tollo... say it sistah! :D

It's nice both ways. To kiss before ou are married or after. But unless I was really inlove, I would't kiss. I think my lips should be saved for the person God has planned for me and no one else.
ps Please do not take this as if I were typing this in a mean and VERY disagreeing voice. I'm am just typing what I think and feel.

I agree with you Julie and Tolo the only person I would ever want to kiss on the lips is the one I thought I would definitely marry. Maybe that's not everyone but it's me!