Many of you know who I am, and how I do things. Many of you do not know. I have never been on a date, had a boyfriend, or anything. I am only 17 and some say I have all the time in the world, but going to high school is a different story when your the only girl you know who hasn't had her first kiss.

To me, Purity is the most special thing a girl can give to her husband. When a girl dates someone, she falls in love. Then after he has her heart, she basically belongs to him. (In most cases). If they break up, it tears a little piece of her heart off. Now she doesn't have a full heart.

She finds another boyfriend, and he sweeps her off her feet, but only lingers long enough to get what he wants, then he's out. That tears yet another piece of her heart away.

Eventually, after many hopeless attempts with guys and giving them her heart, when she finally does meat the right man, she has nothing to give him. Her heart has been broken into pieces too many times.

Now I'm not saying there is no hope for those people and their marrages, I am saying, keep yourself pure that way you can give your heart, your full heart, to your husband or wife on your wedding day.
That would be the most precious gift to recieve that special day.

God Bless
Sis in Christ
Lnrobar

Yes, Cinderella girl,

Your prince will come. The purity of your spirit will draw the compatible mate of like purity. The importance of all this is spiritual connection.
Marriage between husband and wife can image the marriage of the Lord and the Church, and our walk with the Lord is described as preparing as a Bride for the Lord as Husband.

Sexual union is spiritual union and unions outside the marriage bond draw sprits from hell to tempt entrance and plague our feelings and thoughts with further extra-marital affairs that bind us to that spirit even more. What we bind in this world remains bound and what we loosen remains loosened.

The Book of Revelation warns about fornication in the churches and this is spiritual fornication that compromises our marriage with the Lord as the preparing Bride.
In the spiritual world, this becomes actualized as fornications in hell.

Inrobar, in your state of purity, you do not have the evil spirits that plague the unrepentant fornicator and adulterer.

peace and trust
johnscot

You are so right . You should protect you're heart ! For out of it comes the issues of life . Do not allow bad issues in and good issues will come out . Brother Mike

I felt refreshed in a way reading this post helps make me feel like maybe my wife will have waited patiently for me.

Hey. do you know that that is like WOW to me i mean yes true enough i have been through that me myself i have only had 4 Girl Frends but it does not really count because i have been out with the same one 3 different times. but i think that in my case it did work the other way around on of those times. but this time we are gogin out it will be true and honest i feel....

well in God's Love i send you be at peace the time will coem for you and every one else!!
Love ICHTHUS!!

Amen to that, inrobar! i've been there. it's really a pressure to be unlike everybody else, but it's all worth it.

be patient. God works in ways more than you could imagine.

just wait and see.....

GOD BLESS!

lnrobar that's awesome to hear! I've never heard of anyone as close to purity as what you just explained. Keep it up! GOD has someone special for you sister

Inrobar,
I have to say that it is awesome to finally find other people out there that feel the same way i do. I have had people ask me why i don't have a boyfriend or anything, and when i tell them that i dont date, they just look at me like i'm an absolute crazy person. Keep praying and following God, and He will give you your mate. There is no one else who knows you like God does and only He can pick the perfect mate for you. God bless you girl!!!

Haha lady, you think the exact same way I do. xP I'm 18 and I haven't ever gotten a boyfriend yet either. I believe that with me, purity is also a rather big issue. We must keep it until the day God gives us our significant other.

I suppose sometimes it's hard, but God knows the desires of your heart. He didn't give you that longing just to torture you. So yeah, all we need to have is patience. Prayer too. Oh, and here's something a lil bit encouraging.[edited by moderator no links with out permission] <--This is a Christian Korean site (just select the English version) that has different kinds of flash animations. Very cute...and for this...I suggest you watch "Passion". ^-^