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    Breaking Family Strongholds

    I thought by reading this article below may help some, whom are hindered in their relationship with God. I found this article helped me tremendously.


    Breaking Family Strongholds
    Breaking Generational Curses


    Exodus 34:6-7 - "And He [the Lord] passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, 'The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet He does not leave the guilty unpunished; He punishes the children and their children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation.' "

    Deuteronomy 11:26-28 - "See, I am setting before you today a blessing and a curse - the blessing if you obey the commands of the Lord your God that I am giving you today; the curse if you disobey the commands of the Lord your God and turn from the way that I command you today by following other gods, which you have not known."

    Generational curses are judgments that are passed on to individuals because of sins perpetuated in a family in a number of generations. Generational curses are similar to original sin curses because they can be passed down on a generational basis. They differ in that generational curses do not impose eternal judgment. They bring judgment or bondage during an individual's life, reducing the quality of life, until that individual addresses the sin issues that put the curses into place.

    Moses addressed this issue when the Israelites were preparing to enter the promised land. He told the new generation that was preparing to enter in that they would not enter unless the dealt with their own personal sins and also the sins of their fathers. The account can be found in Leviticus 26:39-42

    "Those of you who are left will waste away in the lands of their enemies because of their sins; also because of their fathers' sin they will waste away. But if they will confess their sins and the sins of their fathers - their treachery against me and their hostility toward me, which made me hostile toward them so that I sent them into the land of their enemies - then when their uncircumcised hearts are humbled and they pay for their sin, I will remember my covenant with Jacob and my covenant with Isaac and my covenant with Abraham, and I will remember the land."

    As I have said in other writings, curses take away the quality of life. They can bring failure, shame, sickness and even physical death. They are temporal in nature, causing much grief. They are administered to get our attention and encourage us to turn back to God. Those who are humbled by them, repent and find restoration and renewed freedom from the Lord. Those who become angry, self-righteous and rebel against what God has permitted, and thus remain unrepentant, go deeper into bondage and darkness.

    The Scriptures reveal a two prong approach for dealing with generational bondage. We have to address (1) Personal sins and also (2) Generational sins (in the family).

    At this point, I know that many Christians will reason, "I thought that all the past is under the blood when I received Jesus as my Savior!" As far as your salvation and eternal destiny is concerned, that is true. But our enemy loves to cause us grief when there are sins connected to our lives (personal or generational) that has not been addressed through repentance and confession. Do you remember that time when you received Jesus into your life? You acknowledged your sin in a general way and asked Him to be your Savior and forgive you and cleanse you. The Lord was very gracious with your general confession, but later on the Holy Spirit began to convict you of sins in your past. You were led to repent of them and confess them specifically to the Lord. Why did the Spirit do that? He wanted you to be free of any legal claims of the enemy upon your life. It had nothing to do with your salvation, but the quality and freedom of your new life in Christ.

    Why does God permit the enemy to do be such a hindrance? Because the Lord, in His sovereignty, can use even the enemy's activities to accomplish something good in our lives. Some of the effects include chastisement, testing of faith, a guard against complacency, humility, and the motivation to pursue a sanctified life.

    How do we begin to address the problem of generational curses and bondages? First, you must develop two sin lists - one personal and one for your family (including parents and the members of each of their families). You must be specific and thorough. Take your time. Go before the Lord and ask Him to help you prepare those lists.

    The following is a list of sin categories to help you prepare your lists. Check the following:

    IDOLATRY: _Eastern Religions (list) _Meditation _Chanting/mantras _Cults (list them) _Secret Orders/Lodges _Material things _Money _People

    OCCULT: _Astrology _Fortune telling (various types) _Ouija Board _Seances _Dungeons & Dragons (or similar games - board or computer) _Hypnosis/Self-hypnosis _ESP _Crystals _Psychic healing _Occult literature _Occult beliefs _OOBE (Out of body experiences attempted/experienced) _Spiritism _Parapsychology _Psychic beliefs and practices _channeling _mind control

    WITCHCRAFT & SATANISM: _Incantations _Spells _Dedications _Rituals _Ritual abuse _Blasphemy/Mockery _Literature _Beliefs _Sacrifices _Perversions _Magic _Santeria _Voodoo _Wicca _ Powwow healing witchcraft (Pennsylvania Dutch) _Maloike (Italian witchcraft) _Druidism (Celtic witchcraft)

    SEXUAL SINS: _Fornication _Adultery _Pornography _Rape _Incest _Lust _Masturbation _Homosexuality _Abortion _(edited by LLJ) _Paedophilia _Exhibitionism _Abuse _Fantasy _Other perversions

    DRUGS/ADDICTIONS: _Illegal (list) _Alcohol abuse _Smoking (abuse of body) _Prescription drug dependency _Food dependency

    BELIEVING SATAN'S LIES: _Regarding self-image _Regarding God _Regarding religious beliefs _Regarding people _Regarding behavior _Regarding world standards and philosophies

    FEAR: _Fear of failure _Fear of success _Fear of Rejection _Miscellaneous fears (list) _Anxiety _Worry _Despair _Hopelessness

    UNBELIEF: _Lack of trust _Double-mindedness _Doubts _Skepticism

    DECEIT/DISHONESTY: _Lying _Stealing _Exaggeration

    PRIDE: _Self-righteousness _Self-focused _Vanity _Arrogance

    REBELLION: _Disobedience _Disrespect _Self-will _Desire to be in Control _Stubbornness

    ANGER: _Hatred _Bitterness _Resentment _unforgiveness _Rage _Revenge _Slander/Gossip _Critical/Judgmental _Blame-shifting _Prejudice/Bigotry _Malice

    WISHING DEATH: _For self _For others

    VIOLENT ACTS: _Attempted suicide _Abuse _Murder

    VULGAR & ABUSIVE LANGUAGE: _Cursing (Lord's name in vain) _Sarcasm _Condemning _Off color stories and jokes

    MUSIC: (Regarding content of message or performers' lifestyles) _Occult _Satanic _Sexual _Rebellion _Drug oriented _Focus on Death

    ALTERNATIVE MEDICINE: (with roots in false religious beliefs or with psychic/occult influences) _Reiki _Therapeutic Touch _meditation techniques (emptying the mind) _Transcendental Meditation _acupuncture _acupressure _sonopuncture _iridology _chromotherapy _sound therapy _kinesiology _radionics _astrologic medicine _orgonomy _bioenergetics _biofeedback _hypnotic regression _reflexology _polarity therapy _Rolfing _Do'in _Shiatsu _yoga _Kirilian photography _autogenics _iridology _Ayurvedic Medicine _Tai Chi _Qigong _Traditional Chinese medicine _visualization techniques _psychic diagnosis _psychic healing

    UNSCRIPTURAL SEEKING OF SPIRITUAL GIFTS OR SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE: _Priming the pump to receive tongues _Accepting any personal experience without testing it by the Word of God _Receiving personal prophecies without testing them and having them confirmed by God and the body of Christ.

    This is only a guide to aid you in preparing your sin lists. It is not comprehensive. Not every sin is listed. Add whatever is applicable to your situation.

    Make sure that you are truly repentant as you confess these sins. Otherwise the confession means very little. It is important to be repentant on behalf of your family. If you continue to be angry and bitter towards your family, your prayers will not be effective. Ask God to give you a spirit of forgiveness.

    After you have confessed all sins on each list, renounce any claims of Satan upon your life in the name of Jesus Christ. Declare that you have placed all his claims against you under the blood of Jesus Christ, your Savior.

    Then spend a time of worship and praise to the Lord. Thank Him in advance for the deliverance and healing that He is going to bring into your life.

    Don't expect everything to come at once. The Lord will unfold to you new freedoms in the days that follow. Don't compare yourself with anyone else. His work in your life will be different than in other lives. He knows what you need and when you need it. Keep close accounts with the Lord. Stay in His Word and in prayer. Stand against the enemy. When you have new freedoms, remember that the enemy will visit you trying to steal them away from you. Keep your eyes on the Lord. The Lord loves you and He is faithful.
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    This is very good information.

    I was set free from stuff when I had Christian counselling at my old church over a period of time.

    We do need to keep short accounts with God.

    God bless :rainbow: :rose:
    Colossians 3:2-3, "Set you minds on things above, not on earthy things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God." (NIV)

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    I think we can all relate to this. Praise the Lord, we are not what we used to be. Thanks for sharing.
    Hebrews 11:1 "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen."

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    WordOfLife,

    Thank you so much for posting this. So many people do not realize these might be the caused to the problems in their lives. Thank you so much for taking the time for posting this...I really mean it.

    Today I was listening to the Christian radio station in my town and the pastor was talking about generational curses...he said that there is no Christian that can have a curse. I completely agree with this. But I have a question that confused me.

    What if you get the cursed from family members who aren't saved? My parents weren't saved until a few years after I was born. They were living a life of sin and even doing witchcraft. How does that apply? Does this mean that immediately after you become a Christian all those curses are broken off?

    Thank again!

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    This was fascinating, but also challenging reading.

    Exodus 34:6-7 - "And He [the Lord] passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, 'The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet He does not leave the guilty unpunished; He punishes the children and their children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation.' "

    Now this is scarey reading. I deserve to be punished for my sin. I know that, but to be punished for the sins in my family going back 3 or 4 generations, I don't get that! How can I, for instance, be responsible for what my grandfather said, didn't say, did or didn't do?

    The list of sins in this post is really useful to go through systematically for myself and confess and repent of them, but how can I do that for my family? As I have just said, I have no idea of what sins were committed!



    "Generational curses are judgments that are passed on to individuals because of sins perpetuated in a family in a number of generations."

    Who puts the curse on the family? The article goes on to ask: Why does God permit the enemy to do be such a hindrance? Perhaps that has answered my question.

    "Curses take away the quality of life. They can bring failure, shame, sickness and even physical death."

    So, for instance, there are families that are prone to cancer. You read of women having their breasts removed before they get breast cancer as their sister, mum, aunt and gran all died from breast cancer and the doctors have said that the likelihood of them getting breast cancer is very high.
    Is that what is meant by a generational curse?

    How would I know if there was a generational curse on my family?



    How are generational curses different from learned behaviour within a family? eg people say when a man is unfaithful to his wife - 'Ah! He is just like his father (who had also been unfaithful)!'



    The list of sins "is only a guide to aid you in preparing your sin lists. It is not comprehensive."
    - Well, it is comprehensive enough for me!!!!!!! I have got enough to work from with this list!!!!!! LoL!!!!!!!



    My question, however, is: Aren't I likely to end up a quivering wreck if I go through this list by myself? Won't it be a bit like DIY counselling??!!



    Sorry to have asked so many questions, but as I said at the beginning, it is fascinating, but challenging reading!


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    For everyone who is in Christ, no curse, including those labeled as generational, have no power. One, Jesus became a curse for us, two, who can curse what God has blessed, and three, we are made new in Christ and ALL old things are passed away. When ever you find yourself being overpowered by the enemy or evil things it is because you have unsubmitted yourself to God.

    James 4:7
    "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."

    To say that those who are in Christ can suffer and fail because of curses of any kind is to say that these things are more powerful than Christ, Himself. I do believe we have to overcome generation weaknesses, most are do to the conditions of our upbringing, but this is just dealing with the flesh and is done by denying self and taking up your cross, dying daily and following Jesus.
    Religion is an ugly tyrant.

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    Thank you for your reply. Your post makes total sense other than you seem to be contradicting the article which I was advised to read having asked about the term 'renewing the mind' in the 'Seriously ill' thread.

    Ummmmmmmmmm!!!!!!

    Maybe it is my understanding of what you have written or what the article says, but the two seem to me to be 180 degrees from each other.

    Ummmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!

    Thank you in anycase for taking the time to reply.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Apple View Post
    Thank you for your reply. Your post makes total sense other than you seem to be contradicting the article which I was advised to read having asked about the term 'renewing the mind' in the 'Seriously ill' thread.

    Ummmmmmmmmm!!!!!!

    Maybe it is my understanding of what you have written or what the article says, but the two seem to me to be 180 degrees from each other.

    Ummmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!

    Thank you in anycase for taking the time to reply.

    I am not sure what article you are talking about and who encouraged you to read it. The two maybe opposed, but again I don't know without reading the article myself. What thread is it in and who's post?
    Religion is an ugly tyrant.

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    The article is post No.1 on this thread.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Apple View Post
    The article is post No.1 on this thread.

    Who advised you to read it? You can't believe everything everyone tells you.
    Last edited by jiggyfly; 04-29-07 at 03:27 PM.
    Religion is an ugly tyrant.

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