Some would argue that this verse means, because faith can be lost, it must not be a gift from him. 1 Tim 4:1; 1 Tim 6:10;
So, then if some are never saved in the first place, how does anyone know they are saved?
If God "forces" some to be saved, and he "forces" others not to be saved, how does this verse fit in?
2 Pet 3:9 The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you,
not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.
The
Bible teaches over and over again that those who are saved can choose to walk away from God should they choose to do so.
The nation of Israel did it literally dozens of times. The prodigal son did it. Some of the seeds in the parable of the sower did it. Judas did it.
You can't "fall away from" something you never had in the first place. I can't leave New York City if I've never been there.
The
Bible talks about those who "remain in the faith" and those who don't. Again, I can't remain some place I've never been.
Mat 13:20 "The one on whom seed was sown on the rocky places, this is the man who hears the word and immediately receives it with joy;
Mat 13:21 yet he has no firm root in himself, but is
only temporary, and when affliction or persecution arises because of the word, immediately he falls away.
Mat 13:22 "And the one on whom seed was sown among the thorns, this is the man who hears the word, and the worry of the world and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful.
notice this temporary acceptance is totally different from those who totally reject it.
Mat 13:19 "When anyone hears the word of the kingdom and does not understand it, the evil one comes and snatches away
what has been sown in his heart. This is the one on whom seed was sown beside the road.
The word "backsliding" is mentioned a dozen times in the OT. Jer 3:6, 8, 11, 12, 14, 22; Jer 8:5 ; Jer 31:22; Jer 49:4; Hos 4:16; Hos 11:7; Hos 14:4
In Romans 11; verse 20 we see that people can be “broken off” because of unbelief.
In verse 23 even though they were broken off, they believed again, thus God was able to “graft them in again.”
Rom 11:16 If the first piece of dough is holy, the lump is also; and if the root is holy, the branches are too.
Rom 11:17 But if some of the branches were broken off, and you, being a wild olive, were grafted in among them and became partaker with them of the rich root of the olive tree,
Rom 11:18 do not be arrogant toward the branches; but if you are arrogant, remember that it is not you who supports the root, but the root supports you.
Rom 11:19 You will say then, "Branches were broken off so that I might be grafted in."
Rom 11:20 Quite right, they were broken off for their unbelief, but you stand by your faith. Do not be conceited, but fear;
Rom 11:21 for if God did not spare the natural branches, He will not spare you, either.
Rom 11:22 Behold then the kindness and severity of God; to those who fell, severity, but to you, God's kindness, if you continue in His kindness; otherwise you also will be cut off.
Rom 11:23 And they also, if they do not continue in their unbelief, will be grafted in, for God is able to graft them in again.
A person cannot be something “again” for the first time. They would have had to be that something once already in order to be it “again.”
Gal 1:6 I am amazed that you are so quickly deserting Him who called you by the grace of Christ, for a different gospel
How can you desert a team that you've never been a part of? Can a deserter who has never been in the military be a deserter?
1 Tim 5:15 for some have already turned aside to follow Satan.
Turned aside from what? Something they never had in the first place?
Apparently just because your name was written in the book of life, it doesn’t mean it will always stay there forever, it can be removed.
Psa 69:28 May they be blotted out of the book of life And may they not be recorded with the righteous
The verse below aren't talking about someone who isn't a believer or hasn't accomplished anything in their faith.
2 Jn 1:8 Watch yourselves, that
you do not lose what we have accomplished, but that you may receive a full reward.
2 Jn 1:9 Anyone
who goes too far and does not abide in the teaching of Christ, does not have God; the one who abides in the teaching, he has both the Father and the Son.