Hey Chad, in terms of hearing your service can you not get a hearing aid to help? I can not imagine not hearing my Pastor speak or the music.
As for music I am a big music fan.. I just bought a CD yesterday by Jeff Deyo called "light." Can you find a Christian radio station to help you find new music? I listen to a great station.
http://www.fm100.net/index.php
The music is very now and great.