I am divorced and not dating.
I haven't tried internet dating and I don't really feel the need for it at this time in my life.
I'm actually not searching for a 'soul mate' though, I'm trying to focus on me and God right now.
Will I ever date? Probably. Get married? Who knows?
Rather than think upon those things, I am devoting myself at this time in my life to my children, my family, my friends. I'd much rather have a relationship come out of a friendship than someone I've never met before.
But that's just me.