1Corintians7:34The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

maybe God just wants you to focus on Him first... afterall, you know ur even blessed because u have felt to be really loved by someone, I however had never had anyone cared specially for me...not even dated or court, sometimes when it hits me, i feel really sad and pity myself... like what is wrong with me. but anyway I keep falling into realizing maybe "God wants me for himself"... someone would just be the PLUS. lolz...