Wow

It's one thing to be a submissive wife, but you are not suppose to break the law or sin just because your husband asks you to.
Do you have a Church you both attend? If so, I would strongly advise that you both go in and speak to the Pastor of the Church and go over all of his requests. If he is requesting things that are not in keeping with the Scripture then he needs the Pastor to let him know.
I will pray for you!!!!!

God Bless,

Katzie