Sorry but I feel really offended, I don't think you read from beginning to end. I was saying that she controls and manipulates. That means she likes to manipulate me and make me look bad. It's almost like abuse. But you can't do much about it, cause there's no evidance of it happening. It's not just about taking care of your own responsibilities etc. It's worse then that. I know how to be responsible, but when it goes into actually controlling what you do with your life, that's a whole different thing. And then manipulates you, that's different thing. From that statement, it sounds like your just telling me to grow up. I know what I'm talking about.I also found out that the reason behind this is that, my Mom and Cousin are athiest. I'm not gonna tell them they're wrong, but I think that's what they feel when I just have God in my heart and trying to do what he wants. Cause they think that God is using me to tell them that they're wrong. But as Christians were not supposed to do that. So I don't. That's what I believe. I don't know what to do.